Hi...Just returned from a quick visit to WDW last week and even though I stayed at some of the moderates, I visited SoG to get my tickets and look around the place for a possible future visit next year (due to my wife's rank, the cost of a room at SoG was about the same as what I got with my
AAA discount at the moderates so I tried them instead.)
SoG definitely looks beautiful after the renovations and the rooms are huge (by Disney-standards at least). Bring your own soap and shampoo if that's a big concern for you, my wife and I do as the stuff given at most hotels are throw-away to begin with (we don't even collect it to bring it back home anymore); but admittedly it is a cute souvenir for your bathroom at home.
Honestly, I don't know why the CM's try to scare people away from walking between SoG and the Poly (even being told it's "way too far to walk so you need to take a bus") as it's barely the length of a fairway to the corner of the Poly and then about half that distance to the monorail entrance. Though I am a brisk walker, it should really take about 15 - 20 minutes at a nice casual pace...and you'll get some fresh air at the same time. Though yes, the opening in hedge around the Poly from the street does make it feel like you're entering a forbidden back door of the Kingdom!
The biggest drawback to staying at SoG if you don't have a rental car is getting between there and an "official" Disney hotel. To get between SoG and any Disney resort requires that you take a bus to any of the theme parks' offsite bus loading area, walk to the Disney bus loading area, and then load onto one of these buses. Since SoG's buses do not run as frequently to the parks as Disney buses, it might take you awhile to make your connection.
If you decide to go the Magic Kingdom via bus, it's double-worse since you are dropped off at the TTC, then you have to take the monorail (or ferry) to the MK, as opposed to the Disney resort bus that pulls up to the front of the MK. In this case it is actually quicker to walk to the Poly's monorail station and then take it to the MK. (Truthfully, however, getting between any two resorts on Disney property is a major hassle and really needs to be addressed by Disney if they want anyone to enjoy another resort's restuarants, etc. Right now it's a logistics nightmare to really enjoy more than one other resort during a day if you don't have your own transportation.)
But be that as it may, I'm sure you will LOVE SoG if you decide to stay there. Yes, I did stay at the Poly quite often while growing up, but now that I have the option to stay at SoG, might decide there instead next year!
Cheers, and thanks again for your husband's (and your's) commitment to serving our country!!!
-R