Of the 2, I would be sadder if I couldn't get into VWL, so that's the one that I voted for. They both have rooms/areas that small groups can meet in, but the coziness of those at VWL (fireplaces and rocking chairs) just puts VWL over the top for me.
I love riding the small boats that transport people to/from Contemporary, and FW, and the bike riding to FW. Staying at VWL, I feel I'm getting 2 vacations, WDW and VWL. Now, the springs pool does get crowded at times, but we've been in many times when our family was very nearly alone at the pool. That pool is very convenient to the villas.
I feel less rushed when I'm at VWL.
If you need a 2 bedroom with 2 Q's, VWL has more of them, even though it's the smaller resort.
If I get 1-2 nights a year at BCV to enjoy SAB, I'm satisfied...that would not be the case with VWL.
They are wonderful resorts, they require the same number of points per type of villa. Neither has GV's. I would second the notion to buy at both, if you really can't chose.
Bobbi