My family (myself, wife, sons age 4 and 2) stayed at POFQ last September. We really enjoyed the resort. As other posters have said, the resort is small, the pool was great, and we really enjoyed our room. Ours was very clean, not at all like a motel room, and very pleasent. The room seemed updated to us. There were a couple of nicks and scratches, but considering how many people the hotels service, it was in really good shape. I would compare it too a SpringHill Suites or Residence Inn class of hotel (without the extra bedroom of course!). We thought the theming was very good. You could tell it was there, but it was toned down. It was also very quiet. We did not use bus transportation or the onsite dining, so I can't comment.
We are staying at POR this fall. We just like to try different resorts each time we go, and we enjoyed PO last year. So, we decided to try the "other side" this time. From what I've read, and pictures I've seen, POR seems to be another pleasant resort with really pretty theming. Although bigger, I'm expecting the atomsphere to be similar to POFQ.
In all, I think either way you go, you won't be dissapointed.