Please send pixies!!!

[mickeyluvsjess]

My dh and I were arguing and he wants to cancel we leave in the morning. I cried all night and have not packed. I know he would not do this to the kids but he got me so upset I was shaking all day. I cant get going now and am trying to keep things calm. Please keep me in your thoughts.

 

[sunnyday123]

Have you talked to him? I'm sure he said it out of anger. Sometimes people say really silly things when they're angry.

 

[kathie859]

I'd be upset, too, if my DH said something like that to me!!! I hope this argument and his response was out of character for him and that your family will enjoy your trip. Good luck!

 

[Hannathy]

I don't know what happened but it is usually best to give them a little space and time to regroup. Chances are once he has cooled down and regrouped he'll be rational again.

Good Luck!

 

[MELSMICE]

 

[brockash]

If it were me, I'd be getting packed and the kids packed and would be heading to Disney in the morning with or without DH. If he decides to join us, good for him, if not so be it. There's no way I'd let my dh at the last minute for no "real" reason (not a medical emergency ect.) cancel my trip and the kids trip...if he wants to cancel his portion of the trip, that's his choice, and it sucks for the kids, but there's no way he'd be able to have that much control over me, just because he's pissed about something.

 

[minkydog]

If it were me, I'd be getting packed and the kids packed and would be heading to Disney in the morning with or without DH. If he decides to join us, good for him, if not so be it. There's no way I'd let my dh at the last minute for no "real" reason (not a medical emergency ect.) cancel my trip and the kids trip...if he wants to cancel his portion of the trip, that's his choice, and it sucks for the kids, but there's no way he'd be able to have that much control over me, just because he's pissed about something.

Get cracking. He can either get over it or he can stay home and have some peace & quiet while you all go to WDW. No reason that the rest of you have to pay for his tantrum.

 

[MELSMICE]

Get cracking. He can either get over it or he can stay home and have some peace & quiet while you all go to WDW. No reason that the rest of you have to pay for his tantrum.

Completely agree!

 

[wdwmom0f3]

If it were me, I'd be getting packed and the kids packed and would be heading to Disney in the morning with or without DH. If he decides to join us, good for him, if not so be it. There's no way I'd let my dh at the last minute for no "real" reason (not a medical emergency ect.) cancel my trip and the kids trip...if he wants to cancel his portion of the trip, that's his choice, and it sucks for the kids, but there's no way he'd be able to have that much control over me, just because he's pissed about something.

Get cracking. He can either get over it or he can stay home and have some peace & quiet while you all go to WDW. No reason that the rest of you have to pay for his tantrum.

Completely agree!

Dito to all of the above! I know it's easy for me to say because I am not there, but if my DH didn't snap out of this then I would give him some time to cool off. He could fly down and meet us later, or just not come at all. I promise you, it would not be fun to be at Disney with a stressed out, angry husband.

 

[mousebymarriage]

If it were me, I'd be getting packed and the kids packed and would be heading to Disney in the morning with or without DH. If he decides to join us, good for him, if not so be it. There's no way I'd let my dh at the last minute for no "real" reason (not a medical emergency ect.) cancel my trip and the kids trip...if he wants to cancel his portion of the trip, that's his choice, and it sucks for the kids, but there's no way he'd be able to have that much control over me, just because he's pissed about something.

I agree 100%.

 

[pigletgirl]

I agree with the PP. Go and have fun! Your DH can stay home and pout.

 

[mickeyluvsjess]

Thank you guys for your advice,just trying to stay calm. he did pick up the rental car and im about 70% packed and loaded in the car. Just trying to make it to morning to leave for my happy place.

 

[DisMN]

Knowing how it's sometimes been in our house a day or two before a trip....it can be extremely stressfull just before you go. I'd put money on it that the blowing up was simply blowing off steam/pressure. When it's happened here we both forgive and move on...and because we don't keep rehashing the incident we always end up having a good time.

Stress......it makes glass crack and people too! LOL

Have a great trip!