I know you didn't ask for other suggestions, but two weeks ago I bought a 2011 Toyota Highlander (certifited pre-owned) and I LOVE it!! I was looking at the new Highlanders and I was able to get the 2011 for about $10,000 less and it has many more options (premium sound with 4 disc changer, Navigation, etc.). I did find that I was had a lot more room for negotiation on the used car. I was able to get them to take about $4000 off the asking price (and then of course I paid less tax than if I bought new as well). This car feels so luxurious and brand new. I was driving a 2011 Grand Caravan and it was literally falling apart. The Highlander seats 7, but the 2nd row seat has this cool option to be either bucket seats or a bench seats and it is super easy to convert and the seat hides away in a compartment. I really love it and I test drove a ton of mid-size SUVs with 3rd row seat and the Highlander drove 10x better than anything else I drove.
Good luck! It is fun to finally have a new(er) car, but the process of buying is so much work and very stressful!