Thanks for all of the moral support, friends!
Diane,
I love airedales. Our little Duffy is a wreck when he is left with anyone but my DH or Gramma. Even I don't count in his book. If DH goes to the store he paces and cries until he gets home, even if I am here. Somehow he has been accustomed to my mom's place and is okay. We bring him there even if we are just going to dinner. We obviously raised this dog all wrong but it is hard undoing things now that he is 12 years old. Once my mom is unable to care for him, DH says he is willing to give up all trips that can't include Duffy. He is fine with me going to WDW or any other place with friends. We have found places in Door County Wisconsin which will accept Duffy (we love it there) and I am just starting to research other areas where we could drive. What a fine mess we have gotten ourselves into!
N.B. to potential flamers: at least we are taking responsibility for our own failings as dog parents. Please have mercy.