Personality..

[♥Ariel♥]

Okay so i used to be really shy, but i am coming out of that shell. i never really had a personality, and i kind of am craving one? if that sounds normal at all, in my head it does. so any ideas?

 

[ohdisco]

Personality is really based on what kinda person you are. I mean, my personality wouldn't do for you because that's who I am. I mean, I'm super quirky and eccentric. When I'm around friends I have the mouth of a dirty sailor. I display my emotions and problems I'm having through mixes I make. I hate the color pink. I'm a pessimistic. I'm super goofy, and I love making people laugh. When I'm going to bed I create scenarios of how I wish my life was like, similar to a fairy tale story to go to sleep to. I love Washington more than any other place, a lot of my family lives there, and I wish I could visit more often like I use to. Those are some things that make me me. Things that make you you are part of your personality.

You just need to broaden yourself by trying things out, seeing if they interest you.

 

[BabyPiglet]

You want us to tell you what kind of personality to have?

It's not something you go shopping for, it's something you just have. It's who you are.

 

[OneTreeHill]

You want us to tell you what kind of personality to have?

It's not something you go shopping for, it's something you just have. It's who you are.

 

[chisnpeke]

You can't pick your personality.

 

[Cinderelli16]

Uhmm you can't really pick your personality. You're born with it.

 

[Huit]

You can't pick your personality, however you can expose yourself to new things. Meet new people. Read books on topics that you've never read about. Learn things and form opinions, but never be afraid to change your opinion or admit that you're wrong. Look at art that shows a different perspective. Listen to music that you've never heard. Write. Draw. Act. Fight. Love. By doing things that are new, you'll be able to find out who you are. But don't be surprised if who you are is who you've been all along.

 

[♥Ariel♥]

thanks guys

 

[My Wild Love]

lolololol you can have my personality! just kidding.
I'm a tad strange in that department

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

You can't pick your personality, however you can expose yourself to new things. Meet new people. Read books on topics that you've never read about. Learn things and form opinions, but never be afraid to change your opinion or admit that you're wrong. Look at art that shows a different perspective. Listen to music that you've never heard. Write. Draw. Act. Fight. Love. By doing things that are new, you'll be able to find out who you are. But don't be surprised if who you are is who you've been all along.

Definitely.

We've all done the whole "searching for ourselves" thing.
But you can't really force a role upon yourself. It's just a matter of discovering who you are. And opening yourself up to new activities is a great way to do that.

 

[bananda]

i know what you mean, im shy/coming out of my shell too. you already have a personality, think about how you act at home and with your closest friends. thats how i figured out mine

 

[KitKat_Tink]

you know what just last year i was so shy i would break down if i had to talk to someone. Now i'm talkative, a deffiente people person, and I feel so much better about myself.

If your around 13/14 I think most people have the whole coming out of there shell thing to figure out who they really are

 

[Disney Dork]

Everyone has a personality, it's just a matter of figuring out what that personality is.

Sometimes it takes a while to figure out who you really are, but you definitely will. Especially as you get older. One way you could do it is to try to look at yourself from a different perspective. Like, look at yourself as if you were a character in a book or movie. What do you like? How do you act during stressful situations? What type of things make you laugh? What are you afraid of? Why are you afraid of those things? What's your favorite color? Do you prefer action? Or romance? Why?

All of that is just part of who you are. New experiences can help develop them more and help you to discover more things about yourself, but for the most part-you are who you are.