PD and Happy thoughts?

[jamsmom]

I have a chance to become a long term sub as a librarian. Not a clue what the pay will be. Please send happy thoughts that it wil pay enough and that I will get it so I can sign off the mortgage for Jim ...and that we can agree on a few other things.


Jim informed me last night on Instant Messaging that when he returns from Hawaii he will start seeing other women and whatever that includes with bringing them home. He asked me to move out of the master bedroom, but I told him no that I have too many problems with my neck.

I HAVE to find something to pay bills and move out! I think my sanity relies on it right now.....and I am not exaggerating.

 

[Rajah]

*HUGS tight* Sending P&PD for you, Carol. *HUGS*

 

[Pooh93]

I hope everything works out. Let us know.

 

[aahmom1]

Is this Jim's home? If so, I think you should move out, if not, I think he should move out.

 

[Dan Murphy]

Hoping things go well in the days ahead, Carol. My best.

 

[Scarlett & Rhett]

Things will be alright

 

[Mishetta]

My very best wishes to you. I have followed the saga of the ending of your relationship & I know I would be crushed. YOU are an awesome person! You have put up with so much & handled it all so gracefully. I take my hat off to you lady!

Tell "him" that he can have the Master bedroom once you've moved out of the home (unless he'd care to move out!)

 

[jamsmom]

aahmom1- the house is in both our names. We bought it about 18 months ago or so.


I am glad I have reached the plateau to KNOW that I HAVE GOT TO GET OUT! Now, I just need a job to make it feasible. I really wanted to buy a small home in a safe neighborhood, but I may have to go into an aparmtnet (blech).....but, I will be out.

 

[ltldeb]

PD and good thought for you Carol.

 

[CourtasanSatine]

((((hugs)))) and PD on the way

 

[chell]

Carol I'm thinking about the shrimp dinner when you move out! Hey, I'll even buy!!!

{{{HUGS}}} to you! Sending you lots and lots of Prayers, PD and Happy Thoughts!!!!

I hope the pay for the job will be lots more than you think. You deserve it!

 

[browneyes]

Sending lots of ~pd~ your way. I hope you get the job.

I agree with AM about the house. Since it's in both of your names, I'd suggest selling it. If he wants to buy your share, let him.

 

[mamajoan]

Lots of hugs, happy thoughts and strength building pd!

Put faith in the fact that you have a positive future ahead of you!

Joan

 

[Kitty 34]

Am sending you tons of PD, Carol!! I sure hope you get this job. It's always so sad to think that money or the lack of makes us feel so "stuck". Good luck!

 

[marlasmom]

Best of luck on the job front. I am so sorry you have to go through all this, but I do know that there is no where to go but up.