Goofy must be a detective, but I assure you nobody was trying to do anything incorrect. The FOTL is for five poeple and I will only have five people - the name on the key is semantics and 5 people are all registered in the room in the case of the day my husband will be playing golf. I am paying over $300 a night so no it's not very economical for one person to get there own room.
I have stayed many years ago in the HRH and RPR and I had my mother meet us there and spend a day at the pool. I rented a cabana and spent alot of money on food and drinks. The waitress was tiped well and I had no problems. I was asked for my room key once and I showed it and there was no problem. Since money is being spent and especially in this economy when the hotel is not sold out over a holiday time things are hurting - if you spending they might not be so strict about having one extra person at the pool. If so I will be embarassed but that's all, embarrased, not flogged.
But I will take your advice to heart - Thanks!