But, I am of the sincere belief that its a good for parents to divide a little time (not all day) to separate the kids and from each other. I cannot speak for other families but my kids tended to get on each other's nerves after spending the day together all day. If we break them up for an hour or two, well the attitudes tend to change and there is peace and harmony throughout the kingdom.
EDITED TO ADD I didn't realize this thread was 8 months old when I replied, but my opinion still stands
Totally not Disney-related, but I WHOLEHEARTEDLY believe in this too!
As you point out, kids can get on each other's nerves and if they are separated for a little while attitudes will lighten up and the kingdom will reunite a bit happier. Many years ago, when we only had 3 grandkids (3 brothers in 3 years), they were too old for nap time, but too cranky with each other mid-day. On this particular day, Husband ran to the store to escape (haha), the kids were running amuck, and I was getting cranky. (Don't worry, we are equal opportunity escapers; i ran away to
Walmart the day before.) My mind flashed back to my mom's in-home daycare days. She would separate the kids for quiet activities and rotate them every 10 minutes. Husband came home to find one kid at the counter with a LiteBrite, one in the living room reading, and one at the table drawing... and everyone chill and quiet.
At first he thought it was terribly mean that I separated them and told them they couldn't play together. But we'd all had a rough morning, they were all up in each other's space, and Hubs and I were nothing more than referees from the moment they woke up. After an hour of solo time rounding at each "station" we all came back together. The kids weren't badgering each other anymore, the tattling over nothing stopped, and we had a great evening.
I think we as parents often have the idea that our children should love each other enough that they shouldn't really "need" a break from each other, but that break can be so dang helpful, *especially* on vacation.
And that 1-on-1 time with mom or dad makes special memories as well! Win-win-win!