Update: well thanks to some recommendations from my cruise group, I've decided to switch things around. They recommended not missing pirate night as this is our first cruise. Now we decided to do our Palo dinner on Formal night so we don't have to dress up for dinner 2 nights! Then we will do pirate night as usual. We moved our palo brunch to the 2nd sea day (Thursday Nov 5) thanks to shoreside concierge who where able to assist with the changes!
I think this is better for us and am excited for our first cruise