Thanks, Sherry. That's what we were thinking, but wanted to ask the experts. Plus I want to get the purchase out of the way so I don't have to hear about it anymore kwim. This money has been burning a hole in her pocket for 3 months.
Our plan is to leave San Jose at 5am, getting us there approx 12pm depending on traffic and pit stops. I've already told her that we cannot afford to eat at AG. Do you have any rec's for food nearby? It sounds like we need to get out of there by 2pm, right?
Also, this is President's Day - will traffic be very different since it's a federal holiday?
TIA again!!!
Oh, well, since you will be at The Grove/Farmers Market, look no further for food! There is lots of good food to be found. The Grove (a beautiful outdoor mall) has a Greek restaurant called Ulysses, a really nice little place called the Marmalade Cafe (good for people watching, and lots of celebrities shop at The Grove), a couple of Italian places, Maggiano's, some Chinese food, The Cheesecake Factory, a place called The Farm, and others I am forgetting. Lots of choices. If you stroll through The Grove and into the Farmers Market, there are all kinds of food stands (counter service) but the food is usually excellent. FM has DuPars, Johnny Rockets and Starbucks, but Farmers Market is also known for having all kinds of small family-owned businesses inside it, and the food - no matter what type of food you are looking for - is great. Made by families with love! Now, Farmers Market and the Grove will both be very crowded (they usually are) because it is a holiday and lots of people are off work. But it shouldn't be TOO daunting for you. Just make sure that when you have your parking validated, it is a little confusing to know whether a place like the Marmalade Cafe is part of The Grove or Farmers Market. It looks like it is in The Grove, but it is considered part of FM. So to have your parking validated when you park in FM, youd have to eat at one of the places that is part of FM, and if you park in The Grove side, you have to eat at one of those places for validation. But it all looks like it's part of the same thing!!
Otherwise, if you don't want to eat at The Grove or FM, I can give you some other ideas for places right around this area. I think you will be fine there, but there are other places around here that are good!
For some reason, the streets in this part of town are just always busy (like Fairfax, for example, is always trafficky). So unless it is a BIG holiday where lots of people are out of town, you will usually run into traffic on any given day between here and the freeway. But it will be okay. As long as you get the American Girls out of the way before you head to DLR, then you won't have to worry about driving back and forth. It COULD take you 45 minutes to get from The Grove to DLR - if you are lucky - or it COULD take 90 minutes if you hit traffic. I tend to think that the freeway will not be AS bad that day because a lot of people will be home and off the road. But just be mentally prepared!! It will probably be closer to 45 minutes than to 90!

Leaving The Grove at 2:00 to head for DLR should be fine.