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LunaMini

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Hi everyone :wave2:
I know this is very off topic, but I’m after some advice and I know you’ll all be able to help :)
I work for a well known childrens adventure holiday company and on 17th October I was allowed out of my office with my line manager to visit one of our centres. We were there doing some 360degree videoing for our website. When we’ve been to this centre before to do the video footage, we have always been looked after by the same member of staff, this time though he was busy and he organised someone else to spend the day with us helping. He was great fun, there was lots of giggles (as well as work obviously) and he even bought me a bag of Milky Way Magic Stars. pixiedust:
I returned to the office on Friday and just before the end of the day I got an e-mail from him saying what a great day he’d had and if I was ever in the area we should go out for a drink! I was truly gobsmacked, I can’t remember the last time anyone asked me out! :flower3: As it was the end of the day I sent a quick reply saying that I’d had a great day too and that I was sure I could make a special trip up for a drink.
As we don’t work weekends at head office, I sent him another message on Monday which was a little longer and asked if there was any days that were best suited to him (working on centre involves strange hours) and explained that I was away the following week. I also popped a pack of sweets in the post to him as we’d eaten the ones he had in his car!
I’m now back from my week out of the office and I’ve heard absolutely nothing from him, I’m gutted :sad: I really don’t know what to think! :confused3
Do you think it’s worth me sending him another e-mail saying that I’m back from my week out of the office and see if we can get something organised, or do I just leave it as the ball in his court and the possibility that it was a silly prank?
I’m keen to hear people’s opinions as I’m so out of touch with dating! That makes me sound really old and sad!
Thanks everyone!
 
I don't think your being silly at all!

Personally I wouldn't do anything else the ball is in his court, there could be all sorts of reasons why he hasn't got back to you but I wouldn't push it any further :)
 
I don't think your being silly at all!

Personally I wouldn't do anything else the ball is in his court, there could be all sorts of reasons why he hasn't got back to you but I wouldn't push it any further :)

I agree xx
 
I agree. Leave it to him. Though it's very frustrating ;)
 

Thanks all. I had a feeling this would be what people would say and is what my head was telling me to do, but my heart was saying 'just one more email'

I was really looking forward to a date, Prince Charming has to be out there somewhere...

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