OT: I feel like a terrible mother

Captain_Hook

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I took my son to the playground this evening with DH. I put DS (16 months) on one of those springy rocky metal animals. This one was a duck and he loves ducks. I put him up there and put his hands on the handles. I put my hand on the ducks head in front of DS's face (to protect him). I start rocking him. What happens? DS hits his face on my hand and chips one of his front teeth on my ring. We both cried. :sad2: The difference is -- he is no longer upset and I am still crying! I feel like a terrible mother. :guilty:

When do they lose those baby front teeth? I just might have to sign him up for hockey lessons now!
 
Oh hun, you are NOT a bad mother!!! As a mom of a 12 year old boy, these things happen! My son is 5'9, and skinny as a rail, so hes VERY awkward. Since he was about 4, weve had a broken arm, his head "glued", staples in the knee, and after that he got MRSA!!!! Yeah, my life is fun...LOL! But you do the best you can, and love them everyday. I CRIED the first time he got hurt, now we go to the ER and theyre like, oh, hi Ms. Ducky...LOL!
 
Hi!
1st grade teacher here :teacher:
I would say that at least 3/4 of my 22 students have lost their top front teeth sometime during this school year. These students are 6 & 7 years old.

I know it's hard, but please try not to feel bad.
 
My BFF just had the same thing happen with her DS. Don't sweat it, it happens. You're not a bad mom! Not at all. It definitely bothered her more than it bothered the little guy. Don't sweat it, time flies, and he'll get his adult teeth soon enough :hug:
 

Let's see...you took your child to the park AND played with him...ugh, horrible mother j/k:rotfl:. Accidents happen, he'll be fine. Guess the parents' saying, "it hurt me more than you" is ture.

Like PP stated teeth usually go missing around grade 1. DS started with his bottom teeth...of course cause he has a chip in one of his upper front teeth (still don't know how it got there...I must be the terrible mother :laughing:).
 
My middle guy Zach chipped his front 2 teeth around the same age. He decided to attempt sky diving off our kitchen table into the chairs which had metal rails. I was mortified and called the dentist hysterically crying. We went in, she attempted to smooth them out with some sandpaper strips they had and she sent us on our merry way. At almost 6 he still has those 2 teeth and you don't even notice the chips anymore (they were in the corners).

Stuff like that happens and yeah, it sucks, but it's all part of growing up. Be glad it was the baby teeth and not the adult ones. ;)
 
poor mom and babe. it truly is harder on you than it is on him. Chipped teeth are a pretty common childhood accident....I am sure many here have had kids with chipped or even knocked out teeth! It happens and is just the first of many accidents that will leave you questioning your mothering skills...but trust me you did nothing wrong and he will be fine !! Watch the tooth for any color changes, if it looks odd or feels loose take him to a dentist for a quick check. Don't beat yourself up...
 
It's ok, Mom, it really is.

Of the four of us kids, 2 went thru the preschool years with chipped front teeth, and one of them had a grey front tooth from a root canal. Believe it or not, they both fell off the front porch (different ones). At 27 and 35, they are not scarred for life, and think it's funny that they were both nicknamed "Fang" for a while.
 
:grouphug:I think most moms have been there! I know I have and I cried a lot more than he did! My DS's dentist says he does not usually worry to much about the baby teeth because it is pretty common for those to get broken/chipped, but he said that if something happens to one of their adult teeth, put it in milk and call him, because it might be able to be saved!
 
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Imagine how bad it would have been if he'd done the same motion withOUT your hand there, right?

When Ds was 6 months old we went out to eat shortly before xmas. The restaurant was packed and BUSY. We generally simply held DS on our laps, but since he was 6 months old, we decided to try something new, and put him in the wooden highchair the restaurant provided. It said 6 months and over on it, we figured it was fine.

DS was having fun, but then I noticed that he seemed a little sleepy. I mentioned it to Robert, and said I'd take DS out of the highchair. Just then our food arrived, and I figured it was safer to leave DS in the chair rather than move him around while hot plates of spaghetti were being put down on the table.

Then I either forgot or I thought he'd woken up from the activity (I don't remember my reasoning or if there was reasoning) and I left him in the chair and I started eating. Out of the corner of my eye I saw him swaying, and before I could react, whammo went his face on the thick wooden table.

Everyone else at the table thought nothing of it, but I could tell that it was bad. I started struggling with the seatbelt in the highchair, and as I got it open, he started to scream.

We were pretty much as far from the restrooms as we could possibly be (just a few more tables for perfect a cater corner/diagonal line), and I had to carry him through all those tables...got some cold water on a wad of paper towels to put on his mouth as he cried and bled....

Turned out he had just knocked a (brand new!) lower tooth out. It was barely hanging on, then shortly after disappeared (only to reappear a month or so later on our carpet at home right between the wall and edge of carpet...must have stuck to someone's clothing and dropped there, and I only found it after DS pulled down some potpourri).

We rushed up to the children's hospital, where the triage nurse told us "there are sick people here, take him home...if he swallowed it it will pass or dissolve, don't worry about it", so we went home. The next day he was just about fine (except for sticking his tongue where the tooth had been). He nursed just fine, he didn't hurt. I of course cried bunches.


Later, we found out that either genetics (hubby's father's family has awful teeth that crumble!) or the impact on his face or just some random occurence caused two of his upper teeth (that weren't out yet) to come in yellow, turn brown, then start to crumble, so at 2 those were pulled.


And he's chipped one of his top middle teeth more than once...since we are extended nursers, I can tell you from first, um, "hand" experience that chipped teeth smooth out VERY quickly.

He'll be OK, the tooth will smooth out. If it starts changing, then he'll get to have a dentist appointment, and even if they want to pull it (that's out choice for babyteeth) it'll be fine. Find a great pediatric dentist (will let the calm parent back with him, will start assuming the best of DS's behavior and doesn't jump to extremes to make sure DS stays still (DS had a cavity filled with NO medicine, and just a tad of lidocaine for the two teeth that were pulled, for example), they communicate with you and don't judge you) and it will be OK.


:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
 


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