I know this is off topic and I'm not trying to hijack your thread.

I really don't have any suggestions for your child, but I'm sure you'll find some great ideas here from other parents.
My pet gripe about gifts for the disabled (I'm not referring to your situation, gifts for children), is that people tend to forget that disabled people are people. I've had arthritis for about 20 years and don't consider myself disabled in a severe sense, yes, I have a condition that limits me, but I am a part of the living, breathing world. So many times I've had people say to me or about me "I don't know what to get her. I don't know what to buy for 'someone like her' " Well, what do they buy other people? Really, I'm not some creature from Mars, its not that hard to figure me out! But the thing I despise the most is someone trying to "help me" with a gift. There it is, Christmas, my birthday, or any other gift giving occassion, I open up a pretty box, and find a heating pad!

Or some other gizmo that's supposed to cure my health problems! I mean, what do you say? Here it is, a holiday, and I'm supposed to say "Oh, yes, just what I needed, think I'll plug it in right now". Really, I'm capable of picking out whatever help products that are appropriate for me. On a holiday, I don't want my problems rubbied in my face,I'd like something nice, too, like a nice piece of jewelry, some nice perfume, a good book, well........gifts you'd give anyone else I'd appreciate ,too! I'm especially sick of those Isotoner gloves! I must have at least 20 pair! What I can't take back I give to the Goodwill. The giver is always so proud of their gift--"I thought it would help your poor hands". Honestly, I can figure out what my poor hands need without making it the topic of the day at a holiday!
Ok, now I've vented, so lets turn the topic back to the original one. I'm sure you'll find many good suggestions here for your little boy! Good Luck!
