One more reason I hate Abercrombie and Fitch

Toby'sFriend said:
Anyway, he told me that I would be pegged right away as "Mom with credit card shopping for kid." So I would get a polite Hello. I guess that is supposed to be flattering.
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That must be what I get. :teeth: I've never had any salespeople at A&F be rude to me--in fact, they've always been very helpful, even when I was just exchanging stuff for dd.
 
Anyway, he told me that I would be pegged right away as "Mom with credit card shopping for kid." So I would get a polite Hello. I guess that is supposed to be flattering.

:rotfl:
 
Toby'sFriend said:
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You know what is really odd though? My older son loves to buy the band t-shirts from Hot Topic. Those pierced and purple headed kids dressed in the black stuff with buckles everywhere --- They have some of the best customer service I've gotten anywhere around.

I agree! I was almost afraid to go in there. My teenage nephew wanted some Jack Skellington things they had in Hot Topics last Christmas. I told DH before we went in that those "Goth" kids were going to ignore "old" people like us. They were great and even let us know that some things were going on sale soon.
 
Did you notice it comes in black, which of course is very slimming. Couldn't be that the AF crowd has something to hide as well.

lol that's funny...i didn't even notice that!

technically though it's dark blue - neither abercrombie nor hollister sell any black clothing, and we're not supposed to wear any black while working
 

I agree that Hot Topic employees are the best.

When I was a teenager I had a more edgy look, and didn't feel too uncomfortable about going into that store. Now that I'm an adult and work at Disney I look a lot more *normal* and I'm always afraid they're going to sneer at me and call me a poser or something. It's always the exact opposite... they are always nice and helpful. Same thing at the Spirit Halloween store.

I've walked around A&F... I don't like there styles... and they obviously didn't like me. I don't think they even made eye contact. Nice. :rolleyes:
 
Toby'sFriend said:
That is what I think is so funny. I mean, it is slightly hilarious to have a 19 year old kid not even earning enough money to pay for the overpriced ratty sweater on his back performing a physical and psychological analysis on you. :rolleyes:

Anyway, he told me that I would be pegged right away as "Mom with credit card shopping for kid." So I would get a polite Hello. I guess that is supposed to be flattering.
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You know what is really odd though? My older son loves to buy the band t-shirts from Hot Topic. Those pierced and purple headed kids dressed in the black stuff with buckles everywhere --- They have some of the best customer service I've gotten anywhere around.

My oldest likes Hot Topics stuff and I used to think that there was no way I was walking in there. BUT they are so nice in there, really good in the customer service department.

I never knew until last Christmas that there was a difference between Abercrombies and Abercrombie and Fitch. I have bought stuff on slae there for the kids. I must be sized up as a Mom with card because I was also treated nice...and I am not an A&f customer in looks or size.
 
Nope, I would not ever buy that T-shirt (even if I was small enough to wear it. ;) )
 
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Toby'sFriend said:
You know what is really odd though? My older son loves to buy the band t-shirts from Hot Topic. Those pierced and purple headed kids dressed in the black stuff with buckles everywhere --- They have some of the best customer service I've gotten anywhere around.

This makes me so happy!!! I was an assistant manager at Hot Topic to pay my way through college--we were very demanding of our employees, and I'm happy that the good customer service made an impression on you. :teeth:

I've been working since I was 14, and the people I worked with at Hot Topic were the best--there was never any in-fighting or employee theft. Just a reminder that you shouldn't judge a book by what you think the cover might represent!
 
Nancy said:
My oldest likes Hot Topics stuff and I used to think that there was no way I was walking in there. BUT they are so nice in there, really good in the customer service department.
I worked at Hot Topic for the Christmas season last year and they really push good customer service, esp. to those parents who are too scared to walk in there. ;)
 
Toby'sFriend said:
You know what is really odd though? My older son loves to buy the band t-shirts from Hot Topic. Those pierced and purple headed kids dressed in the black stuff with buckles everywhere --- They have some of the best customer service I've gotten anywhere around.
Funny you say that because as I said in an earlier post I worked there for the Christmas season last year and you are pretty accurate on the way people look that work there. Except for me that is. I am very normal looking (sweater and khakis kind of gal) and when I was working there all the "out of place" moms that were looking for something for their kids for Christmas would walk in and come straight to me to ask the questions. I was also the only one that worked there that different have piercings in my face. :rotfl:
But, as I said earlier, they really push customer service at those stores and I really enjoyed working there and meeting all kinds of different people.
 
Marilyn Mc said:
I agree! I was almost afraid to go in there. My teenage nephew wanted some Jack Skellington things they had in Hot Topics last Christmas. I told DH before we went in that those "Goth" kids were going to ignore "old" people like us. They were great and even let us know that some things were going on sale soon.

Hot Topic has GREAT customer service! And I actually buy clothing for myself there now and then--got a cute little purple lightweight thermal with tiny black skulls and hearts on it that I wear here and there when it's appropriate. :)

Anne
 
It is a nasty store, but they know sex and controversy brings in the bucks, so, what do they do...............
 
momof3disneyholics said:
Funny you say that because as I said in an earlier post I worked there for the Christmas season last year and you are pretty accurate on the way people look that work there. Except for me that is. I am very normal looking (sweater and khakis kind of gal) and when I was working there all the "out of place" moms that were looking for something for their kids for Christmas would walk in and come straight to me to ask the questions. I was also the only one that worked there that different have piercings in my face. :rotfl:
But, as I said earlier, they really push customer service at those stores and I really enjoyed working there and meeting all kinds of different people.

Once people actually came into the store, they stopped being scared of it, but a *whole* lot of people were really nervous.

One time a woman came into our store and asked us if all of our profits went to Satan.

My manager, absolutely deadpan, looked back at her and said, "No...but our goat sacrifices do."

It was priceless! :rotfl2:
 
:blush: Okay, I'm hanging my head in shame.

Over dinner tonight, I told my DD (14) about this thread and the shirt.

She said "OMG are you serious? I *want* that shirt." (In her best Veruca Salt voice).

Now, I want to caveat this by saying that under normal circumstances my DD would never want such a thing. But, if you've read any of my other threads this week, you will remember that she is getting mildly "chided" by the other girls at school because she is thin. According to her, not a day goes by that they don't mention her *anorexia." :rolleyes: She is basically just letting it go, but I think the thought of that shirt REALLY appeals to her because of this. Of course, we WON'T be buying it.
 
Count me in as not a fan of A&F, but enjoy HT. I only went into A&F one time with my oldest dd last year, her first year of middle school, because she heard it was cool. I knew about it, humored her and went in. We were completly ignored, which really cracks me up after reading this thread, :rotfl2: and neither of us were impressed. We enjoy HT, and have had very good customer service there. I'm much more comfortable shopping in there... as someone who used to look like I could work there back in the day... :teeth:
 
Wow, I liked A&F better when their target market was preppy sportsmen and safari people. Anyone remember that? :confused3
 
ducklite said:
Hot Topic has GREAT customer service! And I actually buy clothing for myself there now and then--got a cute little purple lightweight thermal with tiny black skulls and hearts on it that I wear here and there when it's appropriate. :)

Anne

Love that store. Why didn't they have it when I was a teenager searching for spiked dog collars? Now my DD's wearing them. :rotfl:
 
Thank god! Finally some people that feel the same way that I do.

I was really beginning to think I was all alone.

My girlfriend loves clothes. Now mind you, I can honestly say she's not the stuck up, snooty, prissy type. She's not, she just really likes clothes and more specifically, she's going to school for fashion marketing. Anyhow, that's neither here nor there.

It absolutely boggles my mind the way their staff treats customers. I had to go in there ~3 weeks ago with Tiff, which she picked up a few $25 dollar ( :earseek: ) tank top's and paper thin T's and we went to check out and the guy behind the counter actually looked highly irritated (for lack of kid-friendly terminology) that we had to "bother" him to ring us out. Apparently we were interrupting his conversation with his co-worker who might as well not had any clothes on.

And what is up with the ripped up and dirty jeans?! I have a few pairs of A&F jeans that are actually quite nice, but the new ones... I'll tell you what, you go to Walmart, get me a pair of Wranglers, i'll wear them for a week while working on my project Jeep then we can go sell them in Abercrombie for a 500% profit..

The music is so ungodly loud that you can't hear yourself think. I guess that's how they can get people to spend $70 on a pair of jeans.

The icing on the cake was the other day however. I'm not a violent person, but I really REALLY came close to pulling this kid across the counter. Tiff bought a pair of jeans a week or 2 prior, she took them back to exchange them because they were the wrong size and finally the other day, decided to take them back for good as they just didn't "fit" her right. (She has something against trying on clothes in the store.. I don't quite get it, but that's just her thing). So we go to the counter, "bother" the girl and tell her we would like to return them. Gave her the receipt that she got back from the last time.

"I can't return these".

Umm, excuse me? Why not? Apparently, the exchange receipt isn't good enough for them, even though the guy the she exchanged them with said it was. I politely asked what is wrong with this receipt, as it clearly shows we exchanged them for a different size and that these jeans were right there on the receipt. Well, that's not good enough, it has to be the original.

I ask for the manager. Now, i'm not by any means racist or prejudice, I have a handful of gay friends myself, but this guy was clearly playing WAY on the other side of the fence. I barely get any words out about the situation and he actually has the nerve to say in his most flaming voice "Well i'm sooo sorry your little girlfriend is to stupid to understand our return policy".

At that point, I just about lost it. It took every ounce of restraint that I had, to not pull him over the counter and send him on his way to the hospital. Now as I said, i'm not an angry or a violent person by anymeans, but he just REALLY got under my skin, he said it so nonchalantly. I started getting very loud and demanding his name, his DM's name and phone number and his RM's name and phone number. "Oh, i'm so sorry, we don't give those out. If you have a problem you can file a complaint with me. Now, if there won't be anything else, i'm going to have to ask you to leave or i'll be forced to call security." I said oh, no, please let me. I pulled out my phone and called mall security. What I guess he didn't realize is that I too work in the mall and i'm rather good friends with Brad, our head security guard. I asked Brad to please come meet me before I pull the Abercrombie manager over the counter. I guess I said it a bit loud, people started looking and the Abercrombie manager (I still don't know his name) went in their back room to hide.

Brad came down and I explained the situtation, he said obviously nothing was going to get resolved and we both agreed that we should head out. We did. And i'm still trying to get in contact with the area's DM.

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The saddest part of the whole thing, nothing got accomplished with the jeans and Tiff, i'm sure will still shop there again. :mad:

Gah.
 
Wow, that is an amazing story. I mostly shop at their outlet and have never, ever been treated that way. The one thing that I really *do* like is that when I'm shopping, the salespeople don't constantly try to talk to me or my DD as they do in the other stores. Frankly, American Eagle salespeople drive me nuts. They are standing in the front of the store in their little "gang" and when you walk in, they all chime "Hi, Welcome to American Eagle, can we help you find something?" Well, no I say, I'm just looking. "Okay, well let us know if you need anything and don't forget to look at our relaxed fit, flared-leg, distressed, antiqued, acid wash jeans, which are 25 cents off today?" Okay...

Then as I shop, each and every salesperson is trying to "help" me as I stumble across them through the store. One day, when I was leaving, a girl shouted to me: "Awwww, you didn't find ANYTHING you wanted to buy today?" No, I was just looking. "Really, nothing?" Then I said "No, I didn't see ONE THING that appealed to me (jokingly, of course)" She looked highly insulted and I said "Just kidding." My DD was mortified and told me I had "hurt their feelings."

Now when I go in A&F, they are just quietly folding their bazillions of thin T-shirts. Sometimes they will "nod" at me if I make eye contact, but they NEVER approach me. And I've never had a problem at the register. They are always super-friendly. But, this is the outlet which is not in a "ritzy" mall by any means.

I may just have to head over to the Tyson's Corner, VA store and see if they will mistreat me. :teeth:
 
ok.. i live in the UK and we don't have ANY A&F outlets out here but i will buy their stuff from ebay... i like their clothes... and, although i do appreciate why some people find their slogan tops offensive, i don't.. i'm blonde and i's still wear a "blondes are stupid" top... i find it funny, and if it is offeneding anyone, it's offending me...

loads of clothing lines, especially designers, only carry small sizes... of course they do... they want people to covert their clothes, they want to sell a life-style, and image...

i do appreciate what everyone above has said, and i can't comment on the staff or anything... but... i like their clothes...
 












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