Hmmm...interesting. If she were as upset about the incident as she says and was prosecuting, I would expect Kobe's apology to fall way short of her requirements. It seems to me that, if she was accepting of this apology, she is ALSO accepting it as an understanding that she knows that Kobe didn't see it the same way she did and, therefore, is not guilty of rape in the sense she was prosecuting.
In the end, if everyone would just keep their damn pants on, none of this would be an issue.