Ok, I Admit It! I Was Stood Up Last Night!!

[disneyworld!]

what is up with this???
I have never "Dated" before....I have Always "been" with someone! I was married for 12 years, till 2 years ago. Then I met who I thought was the love of my life! my "soul mate" someone who had been chasing me for 30 years(we went to school together) then he "dumped" me. said he was not good enough for me! HA!(it is true...he drinks/issues)

now this guy who has been asking me out since my ex BF Steve. was to come over last night...I cooked...etc,

no show! I hate this....why Do guys do this?

now he'll call...I will not answer

he has done this one other time, I gave him 1 more chance..........

NEVER again!
)I think it is weird, if you ignore them...they call)

thanxs for letting me VENT

 

[holycow]

Hey, You should probably thank your lucky stars that he stood you up if he is that kind of caliber fellow! Forget him and keep looking amongst the toads to find the right one.....he's out there looking for you too!

Good luck! and hang in there!!!!


Holycow
Lisa

 

[NMAmy]

Oh, man--what a pain in the patootie. I'm so sorry. I'm with you--if I cooked for someone and they didn't show--that would be their last chance ever!

to you.

 

[BC]

they will tell you "He's just not that into you"! She recently did a show on this very subject and the guy that wrote the book said that women rationalize and make all sorts of excuses, but if this happens to you, realize he is not really wanting a true relationship with you. If you just want someone to hang out with, then take the chance of getting stood up again, but if you are looking for someone to have a true caring relationship with, this is not the guy!

 

[pirateofthecarolinas]

Forget about him. Move on. NEXT!

Lori

 

[zurgswife]

Don't give him another chance...

 

[disneyworld!]

oh, I have that book....read the WHOLE thing, after my break up with my ex bf of 2 years!!!
that is why I gave him that last chance last night!

I do NOT call him(from the book)
he has been calling me....ALL the time!

I am just not going to anwser his calls anymore!

last year when I was with the ex- he had the NERVE to ask me to marry him!(the stand up one)
HAA HAA......

 

[Pooh's Pal]

Unless he's on this mornings news with a GOOD excuse....Axe him and don't look back!

I suggest you extend your next Disney trip---good for your health, good for your soul!!!

 

[gr8tpanther]

Aren't men FUN?

 

[ADisneygirl]

Next time he calls I would tell this guy not to bother calling me anymore. Then stick to it -- don't answer his calls. There are a lot of people who only want the unattainable, like asking a married woman to marry them. Once they are available, they no longer want them.

Forget him-- plenty more fish in the sea.

 

[Serena]

I'm sorry.


Dump him.

 

[EsmeraldaX]

He's obviously not worth your time. Forget about him, as hard as that sounds, and move on.

(unless of course he had a provable dire emergency, which I doubt, since he's done it before)

You deserve better.

 

[Tuffcookie]

BC is right, this is a typical scenerio from "He's Just Not That Into You"! Do not give him a second chance!!! Raise your standards!!!

 

[Pin Wizard]

Immaturity and a coward are my guess. Dump him!

 

[Jcricket Fan]

So Sorry this happened to you.

My grandma always said that if a man tells you he's not good enough for you or that he doesn't deserve someone like you....believe him and run as fast as you can in the other direction!

Good advise that has always been correct in my life.

Brighter days are ahead.

 

[mickyzzzzz05]

How rude - what a jerk. You gave him the 2nd chance (that was nice of you) and he still turned out to be a jerk! Be glad you haven't invested tons and tons of time in this relationship.

 

[grlpwrd]

Like they say - better to lose a lover than love a loser.

Yes, you deserve better.