Ok for your child's teacher to be out for a week to go to WDW?

riggins

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Hi guys-
In another thread, I was surprised to see so many parents were ok taking their kids out of school for WDW trips. I don't mean that as a criticism, I was just surprised. My kids are only 1 and 3, so I've got a couple of years before I have to deal with that issue directly. However, DH is a teacher, so we are often faced with the similar circumstance of having to deal with crowds on school breaks.

So, I'm curious how people feel about your child's teacher missing a week of school to go on vacation. Would you be ok with it?

Thanks
Leslie
 
I support anything that makes a teacher happy, refreshed and want to teach my kids :p I personally wouldn't have a problem with it as long as the teacher is a good one. I don't have problems taking my kids out of school to go either (though haven't done it yet -but would if we wanted to go off season).

My son is starting 2nd grade so not much experience but I haven't known his teachers to take off from school for an entire week. His teacher this year took off for 2-3 days however (I think her daughter was starting college or parent's weekend or something). Of course there were many days my son said he had a substitute teacher and I have no idea why - LOL!

Do schools generally have a policy for this? I used to work at a university as an admin. person and I know I generally was discouraged from taking vacations during the school year except during break times (Christmas/spring break) and of course the summer was the main time for me to travel too.
 
be able to.

I wouldn' want them taking time off for a trip that would make sense to take when they are scheduled to be off, but WDW is different! Besides you need to live your life for you, not any one else. So the parents get a little ticked! It is one week and there kids only have him for one year!
 
We have been in our current school system 4 years, and have attended 2 other school districts. My oldest is going to 8th grade next month and NEVER have I heard of a teacher taking time off for vacation. Sick days, family emergencies, and birth of a child or grandchild YES, but not trips to anywhere. Our school district frowns on parents doing it, so I don't think they would let teachers do it. We did take our kids out once when oldest 2 were 1st and 3rd grade, but we do not plan on doing it again. YES, I would be upset if a teacher did it. When a substitute is there the kids run amok and learn absolutely nothing (much the same as when I was a kid!) Of course, if a teacher is out for surgery or something, and it is all planned ahead with the sub, that is okay and they do continue to learn. When my oldest was in kindergarten in Florida we did year round school as a pilot program. It was FANTASTIC as we had breaks spread throughout the year. We went to WDW in October and she did not miss school. I wish more schools would go for this, but most parents object. People are just so resistant to change. I too am surprised at how many on this board take their kids out of school, although most are younger and believe me the older they get the harder it gets what with multiple teachers, etc.
 

I would have no problem at all with it. One week of having a substitute teacher is not going to ruin the whole year for the kids. My kids have had substitutes for longer when a teacher was sick and survived (and learned) fine.
 
Gosh, I'd have no problem with it at all. Teachers get vacation time, too, and wherever they'd go during their vacation time should be their own preference. My kids are 1, 7, and 12, and they're in great schools. Their teachers took the vacation time allotted to them during the school year, and the kids had substitutes during that time. Also, as an FYI, it seems that the teachers miss a few more days than they did when we were in school, but on the upside, the children seem to treat the substitutes with a more respect, too. I only recall one time throughout my kids' schooling (thus far) that my daughter told me that some of her classmates were rude to the substitute.

Also, I am taking the kids out of school in October. The prices are better, the crowds fewer, and the weather more comfortable. The children will be fine. . . learning doesn't just take place in the classroom.
 
Originally posted by riggins
Hi guys-
In another thread, I was surprised to see so many parents were ok taking their kids out of school for WDW trips. I don't mean that as a criticism, I was just surprised. My kids are only 1 and 3, so I've got a couple of years before I have to deal with that issue directly. However, DH is a teacher, so we are often faced with the similar circumstance of having to deal with crowds on school breaks.

So, I'm curious how people feel about your child's teacher missing a week of school to go on vacation. Would you be ok with it?

Thanks
Leslie

Absolutely fine with it. Doesn't bother me in the least. Last year my DD's second grade teacher took a week off to go to the Rain Forest with her DH.
 
I hate to say it, but I think that I have problem with this. If a teacher was tacking on a day or 2 to a long weekend, ok, but not an entire week.

I guess my thoughts about this are that if a child is taken out of school for a vacation, you can't blame the child, it's the parents doing it. But the teacher is the adult and should be able to plan accordingly. Maybe I would feel differently if it was year round schooling, but I live in NJ and there are plenty of opportunities during the school schedule to work a vacation of just adding a day or 2 to a long weekend, or the week of Christmas, or the week of Easter or the entire 10 weeks of summer.

You know what you are getting into when you become a teacher and you have to live with the schedule. I am married to an accountant and we can not take a vacation when it falls during the 1st few days of a month, so no vacation over 4th of July, no vaca over Labor Day (although this year we are because it was planned before dh took this new job and they ok'd it) you learn to live and work around it. If vacationing during the off season of Disney is really that important then there are plenty of other professions to seek and take advantage of or patiently wait for retirement to enjoy Disney on the off season. Sorry to sound so harsh, but I only wish that I had to deal with as many days off that a teacher has already, my measly 3 weeks that I just earned the last week this year after working 5 yrs at the same company can't even compare and I work with it. JMO.
 
I teach first grade and DH is a high school teacher. If were to ask for a week off for vacation my school would not allow it neither would DH's. BUT..I have to say that I would not mind if my child's teacher were able to take time off during the school year for a vacation. I know that we are only able to take vacations on Christmas break, Easter break and during the summer....all of which have the highest airfare prices, and highest hotel and rental car prices. I know that we have the summer "off" and some people think that that is a VACATION, well, we are both taking college classes and going to workshops over the summer. Most teachers I know go to school or have another job during the summer. I know that I always have work to do over the summer, centers to make, books to outline, lesson plans to write etc. I would love to take MY kids to Disney World sometime when the crowds were NOT at their Max, I would love to not have to go to WDW in Aug when it is hot, sitcky and rains. If my DS's or DD's teacher were allowed to take a vacation during "school time" I would say "GO FOR IT!!!" realx and enjoy yourself. I had a substitute teacher for 3 months (Maternity Leave) I have to say that the children did not act crazy. I had all my plans ready and she followed them perfectly. I don't see how someone being out sick, or on family leave differs from someone being out for Vacation. In fact when I am out sick the plans I send for the substitute are not as detailed as the ones I leave when I know I will not be in class. Some people do not know how hard it is NOT to be in your class. you have to plan for every second of every day. You have to forsee things going wrong etc. If I am there and we have extra time I know games etc. that the children can play etc. A substitute does not have this luxury. I know some of you will strongly disagree with this but I would rather my child's teacher go and return refreshed and happy. I have the best job in the world! I love what I do please do not think I am complaining, I just can see why a teacher would like to take a vacation during the school year especially if it is for the Disney cruise or WDW.
 
As jealous as I am of the time off my mom and my sister have who are both teachers, is it anyone's business what they do with the few personal days they get a year? I say no, and I would not have a problem with my son's teacher doing this.

Just to put things in to perspective, my sister took her personal days to take her two foster kids to Disney last year. They unexpectedly went home shortly after that, and I don't think those kids will ever have the opportunity to go to WDW again!
 
I don't see a problem with it. I have 5 children, 3 in school fulltime and I would not mind if their teacher took a week off during the schoolyear for WDW. I'm sure most teachers try to arrange their trips during school vacations, but like someone else mentioned, WDW is different.
 
Originally posted by carone0318
Sorry to sound so harsh, but I only wish that I had to deal with as many days off that a teacher has already, my measly 3 weeks that I just earned the last week this year after working 5 yrs at the same company can't even compare and I work with it. JMO.

Do you get paid for those 3 weeks? That would be a dream for a teacher! I've worked for 17 years and have yet to get a paid vacation day. We get paid for working 200 days--180 with students, 5 inservice days, 1 parent-teacher conference day, 3 teacher work days, 8 national holidays--total of 197 days. Therefore we are left with 3 other days' pay--days when we are told we cannot work. We do not get to pick which days, however, so I don't really classify them as vacation days.

So the next time you think that your child's teacher is really lucky to have time off at Christmas, Easter, etc.--just remember that this is time taken off work with no pay and no choice but to take off work then.

However, I rarely take a sick day--none at all for the past several years--as I think it is my responsibility to be there.
 
Originally posted by campingcorgi
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So the next time you think that your child's teacher is really lucky to have time off at Christmas, Easter, etc.--just remember that this is time taken off work with no pay and no choice but to take off work then.
**snip**

Which is the reason I saw a kindergarten teacher from my son's school working at the video store the other day! :eek:
 
QUOTE]Originally posted by carone0318
I hate to say it, but I think that I have problem with this. If a teacher was tacking on a day or 2 to a long weekend, ok, but not an entire week.[/QUOTE]

I have to agree.

My son is going into the 8th grade. This he has to take 6 standardized test.

NY state math exam
NY state ELA exam
NY state science exam
NY state social studies exam
Earth science regents
Math A regents


If the first four exams aren't passed, he runs the risk of not going on to the 9th grade.

During our last PC meeting, the principal made a point of letting the parents know how important it is for the kids to be in school every day. 18 unexcused days can result in your child being retained. VACATIONS are not excused...

In the pass I would not have had a problem with it.

I teach in a day care so I can take vacation whenever I want. Instead I plan all of my trips around the school schedule. I expect his teachers to do the same.

Now, if we were talking about a once in a lifetime trip to another country, I'm sure I'd feel differently. However, I think a trip to Disney can wait until there's a scheduled break. Believe me, NYC public schools are closed a lot.
 
I think it is hypocritical that people feel alright about taking their kids out of school for a vacation, but want to deny teachers the same right. If teachers can't take time off during the school year, then neither can kids. Why can your family enjoy Disney without crowds and heat, but teachers can't? These people sacrifice alot to do what they do, and they don't need another reason to second-guess their decision. A week with a substitute isn't going to affect kids' whole year's worth of work! :confused:
 
I may be wrong, but I work for a school and the teachers salary is portioned out over 52 weeks. We pay them ALL year long. They get the summer off WITH pay. I do work for a school for special needs students or students that can not or will not go to public school. I know that at my daughters private school the teachers are paid the same way.

These teachers you see working during the summer could be making extra money. I take time off during the year from my regular job and work privately at another job during that week or weeks.

I am lucky to have achieved 5 weeks vacation at my job. So I take a big vacation once a year and the rest I work to pay for my WDW vacation

:Pinkbounc
 
Teachers only get paid during the summer because they have chosen to have their pay spread out over 24 pays- they choose to get less each pay in order to have the money in the summer, otherwise they would only get 20 pays. It is still the same amount in total.
 
I teach first grade and I have a 7yo daughter. I would take her out of school to go on a vacation if I needed to. That week would be much more beneficial to her in the long run than one week of school.

I had several students miss a week or more of school this past year. One had surgery, one went to visit her father stationed in California, and one went to visit grandparents on the east coast. All three of these students' parents notified me well in advance. I gathered necessary books, worksheets, and activities that they would need to do while absent from school. The deadline to turn these assignments in was one week after their return to school. They did not have to do every single thing their classmates did while they were out. They had to do the most important assignments and some alternate assignments. The travelers were required to keep a journal and record certain information from the states they traveled through and complete a writing assignment about the trip. There is no way to replace the missed class time, but there is also no way to replace the trip. We worked out the best solution for all -- the parents and myself together. (I think THAT is the key.)

In my school district, we are paid for 190 contract days. We can choose to divide our pay by 9, 20, or 24 installments. Many of the teachers and other school personnel work additional jobs to make ends meet, and some for "extra" money. Yes, we get a lot of time away from the job. Yes, we also spend many (did I say many?) hours working away from school. My official work hours are 7:45-3:30. I generally work 7:30-4:30. Then I carry home a big canvas bag full of additional work. Last summer, I spent a 6-hour day every single week working in my room and preparing for the school year. This year I vowed not to spend that much time, since I want to spend it with my daughter. So far, I've only spent 2 full and 2 half days at school. I have about 2 full days I need to put in to get my room in order (we were all shuffled this summer). Then of course I have to get my room/first week stuff completely ready. This is all done on our own time, since the contracted days consist entirely of meetings and workshops. I chose this profession because I really wanted to be a teacher. I also would like to be a stay-at-home Mom, but that is not feasible, so I have the best job for offering time with my child. Sorry, I got sidetracked......

Back to days off. I get 1 personal day each year. It can not be used immediately before or after a holiday, so I can not add it to a long weekend. My husband can not take off work around the Christmas holidays, so we can not vacation over Christmas break. Since we find the Florida heat unbearable in the summer, we go on Spring Break.

Year round school is rare in our state. It gets little support from the public or teachers, except for those already doing it. Some of my friends teach in a year-round school and LOVE it. They enjoy the frequent refreshing breaks and the students perform better overall. If my school went to year-round, I could finally take advantage of those Disney Fall Specials. :earsgirl:

I missed a lot of days last school year. I had 7 school business days and several days of jury duty. Most substitutes are very competent and when I know I'm going to be out, I leave more notes and instructions than they need. Yes, the kids always try to get by with more -- sometimes they do, and sometimes they get a sub who is much more strict than I am.
 
"...When a substitute is there the kids run amok and learn absolutely nothing (much the same as when I was a kid!) Of course, if a teacher is out for surgery or something, and it is all planned ahead with the sub, that is okay and they do continue to learn..."

Goodness, where do you live and why are the children running amok? If the teacher is out, the teacher is out, doesn't really matter why as long as the "out time" is planned ahead with the sub like you mention, they should continue to learn. Doesn't make sense to me that an absence for surgery can be planned ahead for and everything be ok, but not an absence for anything else.

My daughter attends the local catholic school and they do not frown upon us taking a family vacation. Her teachers are always very excited for her when she tells them she is going to Disney, and we go in September, over the Labor Day week. She misses wed-fri (they are off Mon and Tues for Labor Day). They give her work ahead of time and if she misses anything else, they give her more to make up when she returns. I would love for any of the teachers to get to take a family vacation with their family, no matter what time of year and no matter where they are going.
 


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