Oh Sonya, It must be really hard on you to be going through what you are going through right now. I can't even imagine the pain you must be going through.
It also must be terribly hard that you can't do these things that you normally do on your own and have to rely on everyone to do them for you.
You must understand also that your Mom is also very tired through this whole experience to. She has most likely been under a ton of stress and just wants you back to normal.
I know you have gone through a ton as well and with the pain you are in it is sometimes hard to think of others while you are feeling the way you are.
But remember your Mom loves you.