OH my SIL at it again!

[nancys]

I'm betting that cheermom1 is the mother of a cheerleader, rather than a joyful parent. Beside the point, I know, but that's what I'm thinking.

 

[Pinnie]

Thanks, Bob, for pointing out the irony.
No one is making fun of ya, Cheer. Just curious why you have the signature you do with the post you made.

Bob...great pick up!

pinnie

 

[bumbershoot]

Saddest thing I ever hear in my life is to make fun of someone!!! I have a real problem and all you people can do is make fun of me! what is wrong with you??? Yes I hope she does go to jail for what she did b/c she even said she won;t stop. It is very sad that a person steals the way she does and doesn;t care. she has 3 kids who need her but she doesn't want them. her parents have them. She said she doesn;t want them. and for you people to say the things you are saying is just wrong! I am not the only one by far that ever posted something about someone and this is even the worst anyone has ever posted but you chose to make fun me? I can say what I really want to say for fear of points!

No one is making fun of you.

But with your signature line, you shouldn't be talking about other people, because your sig line is saying that people who talk about other people are "small".

If you want to talk about other people, go for it, I don't mind, but you might consider deleting that part of your signature first.

 

[Creativebeth]

Bob NC thanks for that!!!!

I wouldn't have picked it up myself.....

 

[kaffinito]

Saddest thing I ever hear in my life is to make fun of someone!!! I have a real problem and all you people can do is make fun of me! what is wrong with you??? Yes I hope she does go to jail for what she did b/c she even said she won;t stop. It is very sad that a person steals the way she does and doesn;t care. she has 3 kids who need her but she doesn't want them. her parents have them. She said she doesn;t want them. and for you people to say the things you are saying is just wrong! I am not the only one by far that ever posted something about someone and this is even the worst anyone has ever posted but you chose to make fun me? I can say what I really want to say for fear of points!

She sounds like a real piece of work. So are those your brothers kids too? What's she doing fobbing her kids off on her mother? Maybe they haven't gotten divorced 'cause they live in a "no fault" state?

 

[JOCAmom]

Thanks Bob....I really needed a laugh tonight.

 

[Tink888]

Saddest thing I ever hear in my life is to make fun of someone!!! I have a real problem and all you people can do is make fun of me! what is wrong with you??? Yes I hope she does go to jail for what she did b/c she even said she won;t stop. It is very sad that a person steals the way she does and doesn;t care. she has 3 kids who need her but she doesn't want them. her parents have them. She said she doesn;t want them. and for you people to say the things you are saying is just wrong! I am not the only one by far that ever posted something about someone and this is even the worst anyone has ever posted but you chose to make fun me? I can say what I really want to say for fear of points!

Brilliant people talk about ideas
average people talk about things
small people talk about other people

No one is making fun of you. Nothing wrong with talking about other people if that's your thing. But with a sig like that, you kind of leave yourself wide open for comments when you post about other people.

People are trying to tell you to practice what you preach, or maybe just remove your sig.

 

[ZeitgeistDuck]

I love it when the saintly sig types get called out and smacked around a bit.

At least you can congradulate yourself on being a small person, Cheermom.

 

[crashbb]

Ignoring the fact that the OP's signature is amusingly hypocritical, I don't understand why it is only the "evil" SIL's problem that the kids are with her parents. Why doesn't their father (OP's brother) look after them?

 

[disneyjunkie]

Saddest thing I ever hear in my life is to make fun of someone!!! I have a real problem and all you people can do is make fun of me! what is wrong with you??? Yes I hope she does go to jail for what she did b/c she even said she won;t stop. It is very sad that a person steals the way she does and doesn;t care. she has 3 kids who need her but she doesn't want them. her parents have them. She said she doesn;t want them. and for you people to say the things you are saying is just wrong! I am not the only one by far that ever posted something about someone and this is even the worst anyone has ever posted but you chose to make fun me? I can say what I really want to say for fear of points!

Are the 3 kids your brother's children? If so, what in the world is wrong with your brother? He's just bad as his wife(as far a parenting goes) if he is allowing his in laws to raise the children.

People are trying to tell you to practice what you preach, or maybe just remove your sig.

 

[Boxley]

Saddest thing I ever hear in my life is to make fun of someone!!! I have a real problem and all you people can do is make fun of me! what is wrong with you??? Yes I hope she does go to jail for what she did b/c she even said she won;t stop. It is very sad that a person steals the way she does and doesn;t care. she has 3 kids who need her but she doesn't want them. her parents have them. She said she doesn;t want them. and for you people to say the things you are saying is just wrong! I am not the only one by far that ever posted something about someone and this is even the worst anyone has ever posted but you chose to make fun me? I can say what I really want to say for fear of points!

No one is making fun of you but is pointing out the irony you probably are failing to notice.

Are they your brother's kids too?

 

[Carly_Roach]

No one is making fun of you but is pointing out the irony you probably are failing to notice.

Actually, this whole thread from post #2 forward is making fun of the original poster and high-fiving each other for it. I have signatures turned off so after doing this for most of the first and second pages and wondering what in her signature could have anything to do with a person who's been found guilty of fraud getting a job as an accountant before sentencing, I had to look.

I love it when the saintly sig types get called out and smacked around a bit.

At least you can congradulate yourself on being a small person, Cheermom.

OP may have made one post about her family member which could conceivably be considered talking about other people. However, she is apparently in good company as those who dwell in the small mind world. The beauty of it is that she will learn to not post about family members on this board where everyone posts about their family experiences and she will grow and learn from that experience.

Those who spent and will spend pages and pages yukking it up at the OP's expense, however....

 

[ols386]

Actually, this whole thread from post #2 forward is making fun of the original poster and high-fiving each other for it. I have signatures turned off so after doing this for most of the first and second pages and wondering what in her signature could have anything to do with a person who's been found guilty of fraud getting a job as an accountant before sentencing, I had to look.

OP may have made one post about her family member which could conceivably be considered talking about other people. However, she is apparently in good company as those who dwell in the small mind world. The beauty of it is that she will learn to not post about family members on this board where everyone posts about their family experiences and she will grow and learn from that experience.

Those who spent and will spend pages and pages yukking it up at the OP's expense, however....

Agree with you!

Sad, isn't it?

 

[RayaniFoxmur]

Saddest thing I ever hear in my life is to make fun of someone!!! I have a real problem and all you people can do is make fun of me! what is wrong with you??? Yes I hope she does go to jail for what she did b/c she even said she won;t stop. It is very sad that a person steals the way she does and doesn;t care. she has 3 kids who need her but she doesn't want them. her parents have them. She said she doesn;t want them. and for you people to say the things you are saying is just wrong! I am not the only one by far that ever posted something about someone and this is even the worst anyone has ever posted but you chose to make fun me? I can say what I really want to say for fear of points!

I'm confused as to how this is YOUR problem. This sounds like your brother's problem and if you don't want it to be your problem, don't get involved.

 

[Boxley]

If she doesn't want to post she should not post the signature.

 

[Cornhusk]

Actually, this whole thread from post #2 forward is making fun of the original poster and high-fiving each other for it. I have signatures turned off so after doing this for most of the first and second pages and wondering what in her signature could have anything to do with a person who's been found guilty of fraud getting a job as an accountant before sentencing, I had to look.

OP may have made one post about her family member which could conceivably be considered talking about other people. However, she is apparently in good company as those who dwell in the small mind world. The beauty of it is that she will learn to not post about family members on this board where everyone posts about their family experiences and she will grow and learn from that experience.

Those who spent and will spend pages and pages yukking it up at the OP's expense, however....

Her signature goes against those who talk ill of others, this is not the first of the OP's post against not only her sister, but rather against her family. It seems everyone else has a problem except her. This isn't ONE post out of a couple but Cheermom appears to have a problem with her relatives. This technically is not her problem. EVERYONE has a problem except her. If she made a posts once in a while you would have a point, but then again she does do a lot of post making her seem not only sanctimonious and judgemental but now the signature makes her appear to be a hypocrite. I am not against people making posts about their family members but the fact that if you are going to talk about others, own up to it. Don't act the victim because guess what? The OP is acting like one because people are "making fun of her" if she didn't want posts to point out things, she should not have post in the first place. Maybe she ought to get rid of the signature before bemoaning (again and again) her family and their problems. Don't air your dirty laundry in public if you are not afraid of filthy water smacking you back.

 

[Heidict]

Why are you not saying anything to the employer? You don't have to call them up and tell them who you are but you should send them an anonymous letter telling them who they hired. You do have some responsibility in getting in touch with them. If you don't, and she does something, then I think that you would share part of the guilt.

 

[ZeitgeistDuck]

OP may have made one post about her family member which could conceivably be considered talking about other people.

Search before you speak, my friend. She posts a lot about her awful SIL and family. If it were just one, I would have just chuckled inwardly and not said anything.

However, she is apparently in good company as those who dwell in the small mind world.

Better the 'small mind' world than the 'hypocrite' world. Really, this isn't about being small minded. I don't know OP well enough to know if she's small minded or not- I just think its hilarious to have a sig that snarks on people talking about people, while she's...talking about people!

The beauty of it is that she will learn to not post about family members on this board where everyone posts about their family experiences and she will grow and learn from that experience.

Yeah, and nooooobody ever gets called out on the Dis, right? Whatever. If she didn't have the sig, she probably would have gotten empathy and support.

 

[ols386]

Search before you speak, my friend. She posts a lot about her awful SIL and family. If it were just one, I would have just chuckled inwardly and not said anything.



Better the 'small mind' world than the 'hypocrite' world. Really, this isn't about being small minded. I don't know OP well enough to know if she's small minded or not- I just think its hilarious to have a sig that snarks on people talking about people, while she's...talking about people!



Yeah, and nooooobody ever gets called out on the Dis, right? Whatever. If she didn't have the sig, she probably would have gotten empathy and support.

So it would be ok is she removes the sig??? Would that satisfy you and others? And then we might be able to continue with the subject of the op, and not her sig?

 

[locolala]

OP, it's really simple.. cut her out of your life. You don't need a person like this in your life. Don't answer the phone when her or your BIL call. Subit a letter to the company she's supposedly working for, maybe you'll get lucky and she'll go to jail and you won't have to worry about her anymore.