ldymcbth, thanks for sharing your experiences.
We got back today, did the Frozen Premium package yesterday. Here are my thoughts:
Parade: Would have been happier without the package. Package seating is not great, and CMs are not enforcing the kids only (or kids + 1 parent) seating at the roped areas. There were SEVERAL grown adults sitting front row rope in front of little kids, and 1 grown grandmother who was a row back and KNEELED the whole time and allowed her granddaughter to stand the whole time. Even after other patrons asked them to be seated, it didn't change, and CMs absolutely did nothing and did not care. The snacks and water are nice but to get a good seat you have to be there easily as early as you would to get a regular good seat, so IMO the premiere package totally not worth it at this point. Also, on the day we did the package Dara Vamp came out and quizzed the premiere people with Frozen questions, awarding correct answers with rings and keychains. If that's the sort of thing that trips your kid out (not getting chosen, etc), then plan accordingly and maybe bring something of your own to give them. The kids who were chosen were the ones who were loud, jumping around, waving hands, etc. - if your kids (like mine) are more of a patient hand in the air kinda kid, they will likely not get picked.
The parade itself is cute but very short.
Your parade experience is pretty common. There is just a taped off area for the kids. I think I was calling it a roped off area, but actually it's tape on the ground. That is the only area where seating is required. Anywhere else along the rope is fair game to stand, and most people do.
People do line up as early and some earlier to get a decent spot in the package area. Which was partly why we chose to not stay in the viewing area for the parade. We ate some snacks then left, taking a drink and snack with us, and found our own spot.
The plus to the package viewing is seeing the stage part of the welcome. It's my understanding that they now let the package guests to the front of the stage before the rest of the guests.
Singalong: The singalong is great - wonderful - a must see. I hope they keep this somehow, it's so cute and well done. It was nice to pick a time to see it. It's not the front rows reserved, though, it's rows 3-5 or 6. There are 2 rows in front of the premium seating - 1 is a row for wheelchairs and companions, and one is supposedly for performer's family though on our day they let anyone sit there. Just an FYI.
The 1st weekend it was the 1st 5 rows for the package. But since then it's been just the 3rd and 4th, possibly the 5th if needed. Any seats left in the 1st and 2nd row get filled in with late arrivals if the show is filled to capacity.
Dessert party : The desserts were lovely. It was a fun time. The viewing area is really good for the stage things, ok for fireworks. But again, to get a good table you have to queue up in advance of the party start, and for ME one of the things I felt like I was paying premium $$ for was to NOT have to waste so much time waiting. I don't feel like the premium tickets saved me any time at all. So if that's why you are buying them, I recommend saving that money and doing something else with it.
The desserts were the best part!
I guess we got lucky having rain and the tables inside at Disney Jr. When we came back out after the dessert, there were no tables in the viewing area. It was the same as it was for the parade.
I agree, the package doesn't save any time. But it does help with providing a reserved non-crowded area for the fireworks and parade, and reserved seating for the singalong.
The package is certainly not necessary as the parade, singalong, and fireworks are available to everyone.
Hope that helps someone! I think my attitude suffered because I felt like we spent SO MUCH to be there (park tickets + premiere package for six) that I felt like we really needed to get our money's worth. We would have been better off without the package, honestly.
It is a costly package. And you're right, to optimize your experience even in the package it takes invested time on top of the package price.
Other stuff:
Wandering Oaken's shop - there was little to no wait to get in all day. Merchandise was well-stocked, even dresses. There's a pressed penny machine in there, which is awesome and made a good, cheap keepsake and we didn't have to stand in line to check-out.
Frozen Funland - we spent a ton of time in here. Did snowman building twice, and ice skated. It was really fun, and well-themed, and we enjoyed our time in here a bunch.
Glad you enjoyed Oaken's. The press penny is cool. That's the only one at DHS that has all 3 penny's as Frozen. The others, In Character and Disney & Co. only have 1 Frozen character.