o mi gosh.i am about to cry

[diva122094]

i feel that i can't say anything without my friends getting myself into trouble.
one of my best friends is now trying to tell me that i am flirting to much with the guy i like,she likes and my other best friend likes.
and none of them understand that i lost two of my best friends because they switched schools and the other girl i hang had these other friends and she is really popular.i was trying to make some new friends and now they all like hate me right now.it just feels like it.and i don't think i can handle my life anymore.i just want to like not have my life right now because i feel like everything i do is my fault.
i don't know what to do anymore, i just want my old best friends to move back and return to my old life again.

 

[Cali_Sparrow]

I dealt with so much of this during HS and JHS, it's not funny! Sometimes people are just so caught up in themselves that they don't realize/care how much they can get you into trouble by relaying information that is supposed to be kept private just by the rules of friendship.

My best advice is to let them go if all they ever do is get you into trouble or start drama. I know it sucks being friendless for a while but you do eventually meet new people who hopefully will treat you with more respect. Focus on schoolwork so you don't feel lonely at school, and join a sports team or club after school to keep you busy and make new friends.

 

[diva122094]

I dealt with so much of this during HS and JHS, it's not funny! Sometimes people are just so caught up in themselves that they don't realize/care how much they can get you into trouble by relaying information that is supposed to be kept private just by the rules of friendship.

My best advice is to let them go if all they ever do is get you into trouble or start drama. I know it sucks being friendless for a while but you do eventually meet new people who hopefully will treat you with more respect. Focus on schoolwork so you don't feel lonely at school, and join a sports team or club after school to keep you busy and make new friends.

Thank You for the advice!!