If you go to Hilton Head expecting a huge party atmosphere for New Year's Eve, you will indeed be disapointed; however, if you have realistic expectations, you can have a wonderful trip. We've spent the last several New Year's on the island (not at Disney) and we plan to continue the tradition as long as we can. All of the large hotels on the island have traditional parties, with bands, lots of noise and booze, dancing, etc. It is my understanding that Disney does not try to throw a grown up party, but focuses on children/families spending time together. You really have options for your celebrations. We prefer a quiet, family night. We usually have a nice dinner, then watch Dick Clark for awhile, then head out to the beach for the midnight countdown. I can't tell you how special those times have been. Like any other vacation that you might take, you can make whatever you want to out of it. Have fun!