Tonight DS gets a phone call (on his cellphone) from the ex-boyfriend of the friend.girl he is now "seeing". The girl is nice, met her as they were both junior counselors at chuch camp at the beginning of summer.
The ex-BF is harrassing my DS, asking about the girl, not believing anything my DS says, keeps calling him a liar, and ends with threats that he is going to beat up my DS.
Now, this is a boy we have never even met, know nothing about, calls out of the blue (how did he get the cell # anyway) and threatens DS.
DS is sick to his stomach, can't even eat dinner, worrying about what the boy said, what should he do. AND the friend.girl is not answering her phone or texts, very annoying. I tell DS to text HER and say "what is going on with ex". He does. no reply.
An hour or so later, friend.girl calls back and tells DS that the ex is probably drunk, he has been calling her, too, and she is ignoring calls. She says ignore him.
DH and I are a bit stymied........what is going on??
The ex identified himself by name, and we have his cell phone number (since he called on that).
Small town, we look his last name up in the book and figure out which are in our school district, and DH calls the parents. Mom is rather nice, but says she doesn't think it was her son that called, as he is at football camp. DH tells her the number, and it is his. DH says he wants to be clear that her son should never call or even talk to DS again, or we will involve the police. Mom says she understands, and she will talk to him.
All the was40's are a bit unsettled tonight over this!