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[snowwhite325]

Hi Hara Can't find a have a nice vacation anywhere on bucket.

So I hope she likes purple.

Snow, you are the shopping queen!

Thanks Judi

 

[snowwhite325]

Need to get Mom settled for the night.

All.

Have a wonderful night

 

[turning40withMickey]

I am just settling in to catch up and chat!

 

[snowwhite325]

I am just settling in to catch up and chat!

I'm not going to bed yet...I should be around for another 20 minutes at least

 

[turning40withMickey]

I'm not going to bed yet...I should be around for another 20 minutes at least

Yeah! I am catching up! be here and there as i do

 

[turning40withMickey]

It was ok...remember how I told the teacher about the girl who cheated? Well this girl now wants to hurt me She sits at her table and points and laughs....some people are so immature I don't say anything to her I just look over at her with a blank stare...I let the teacher know what is going on and she said she would keep an eye on the girl I thought summer school was going to be relaxing...but I guess I was wrong

There always has to be at least one in the bunch who wants to cause trouble for someone else. DS has this all year long. He's a very good kid and gets pushed around a lot, unfortunately. I am very sorry for you since summer school should be relaxing and this shouldn't be happening to you. She's the one that's in the wrong. I'm glad the teacher is on your side.

I hate drama...we are going to be seniors not kindergarteners I ignore her which make her even more angry but it amuses me...I love when people talk about you in front of your face and think you won't notice...it's like they think you are stupid

Oh, Snow! I am sorry for you! Hara is right, there is always someone causing trouble. You did the right think. Stand tall!

Hara: My DS is similar, a good kid.....doesn't get caught up in the drama, usually, but every once in a while is in the middle of less than ideal. Tonight is a good example. I will post that story next.

 

[snowwhite325]

Oh, Snow! I am sorry for you! Hara is right, there is always someone causing trouble. You did the right think. Stand tall!

Hara: My DS is similar, a good kid.....doesn't get caught up in the drama, usually, but every once in a while is in the middle of less than ideal. Tonight is a good example. I will post that story next.

Thanks was40 I am the type of person who likes to solve problems for others not be caught in the middle of them

 

[turning40withMickey]

Tonight DS gets a phone call (on his cellphone) from the ex-boyfriend of the friend.girl he is now "seeing". The girl is nice, met her as they were both junior counselors at chuch camp at the beginning of summer.

The ex-BF is harrassing my DS, asking about the girl, not believing anything my DS says, keeps calling him a liar, and ends with threats that he is going to beat up my DS.

Now, this is a boy we have never even met, know nothing about, calls out of the blue (how did he get the cell # anyway) and threatens DS.

DS is sick to his stomach, can't even eat dinner, worrying about what the boy said, what should he do. AND the friend.girl is not answering her phone or texts, very annoying. I tell DS to text HER and say "what is going on with ex". He does. no reply.

An hour or so later, friend.girl calls back and tells DS that the ex is probably drunk, he has been calling her, too, and she is ignoring calls. She says ignore him.

DH and I are a bit stymied........what is going on??

The ex identified himself by name, and we have his cell phone number (since he called on that).

Small town, we look his last name up in the book and figure out which are in our school district, and DH calls the parents. Mom is rather nice, but says she doesn't think it was her son that called, as he is at football camp. DH tells her the number, and it is his. DH says he wants to be clear that her son should never call or even talk to DS again, or we will involve the police. Mom says she understands, and she will talk to him.

All the was40's are a bit unsettled tonight over this!

 

[turning40withMickey]

That would be so much fun I'm still hoping I run in to was40 or hara while I am there

That would be fun! I am finalizing my plans of where we are every minute, but mostly that is not Disney, but the dark side.......

 

[snowwhite325]

Tonight DS gets a phone call (on his cellphone) from the ex-boyfriend of the friend.girl he is now "seeing". The girl is nice, met her as they were both junior counselors at chuch camp at the beginning of summer.

The ex-BF is harrassing my DS, asking about the girl, not believing anything my DS says, keeps calling him a liar, and ends with threats that he is going to beat up my DS.

Now, this is a boy we have never even met, know nothing about, calls out of the blue (how did he get the cell # anyway) and threatens DS.

DS is sick to his stomach, can't even eat dinner, worrying about what the boy said, what should he do. AND the friend.girl is not answering her phone or texts, very annoying. I tell DS to text HER and say "what is going on with ex". He does. no reply.

An hour or so later, friend.girl calls back and tells DS that the ex is probably drunk, he has been calling her, too, and she is ignoring calls. She says ignore him.

DH and I are a bit stymied........what is going on??

The ex identified himself by name, and we have his cell phone number (since he called on that).

Small town, we look his last name up in the book and figure out which are in our school district, and DH calls the parents. Mom is rather nice, but says she doesn't think it was her son that called, as he is at football camp. DH tells her the number, and it is his. DH says he wants to be clear that her son should never call or even talk to DS again, or we will involve the police. Mom says she understands, and she will talk to him.

All the was40's are a bit unsettled tonight over this!

How old is this ex-boyfriend? I can't believe what some kids do Here are a few extra for the was40's

 

[turning40withMickey]

I hae been doing really well. Thanks for asking. It looks like several of ya'll are getting really close to trip times. Are you all getting yourselves ready? I'm so ready for a break. I just don't want to wish time a way know what I mean. I know my trip will get here in its own good time.

Stop in anytime, Smiley!
And if you want us to throw a big party when you hit 6000, we will!!!
You aren't too far away!

 

[snowwhite325]

That would be fun! I am finalizing my plans of where we are every minute, but mostly that is not Disney, but the dark side.......

If we had known my mom was going to coming along sooner we would have planned a day at the dark side I guess we will have to save it for January 2010

 

[turning40withMickey]

I am glad to do it!! Remember, I have a daughter who is only a year or two older than you are.

I need you to make me feel better, too, Hara!
So the drama with teens?
Was it like that when we were that age?
I don't think so.........
or maybe I just stayed way clear of it............

 

[turning40withMickey]

How old is this ex-boyfriend? I can't believe what some kids do Here are a few extra for the was40's

Thanks for all the hugs!
the ex is 17 (yet another issue here, friend.girl thought he was probalby drunk)
he is going to be a senior in HS, my DS will be in 10th grade.

 

[turning40withMickey]

Miss Hara

I guess I was just whiney because every page I went too, Cole didn't need to see. You think disney would be safe

Yikes! Even the Disney page.......
it's just not right!
I saw the mom and daughter duo......do ya think that is dad there with them?

 

[snowwhite325]

Thanks for all the hugs!
the ex is 17 (yet another issue here, friend.girl thought he was probalby drunk)
he is going to be a senior in HS, my DS will be in 10th grade.

I hate kids that drink...I was the girl who gave a lecture to everyone I knew that was going to prom about the dangers of drinking and driving and to never do it. I also told them no hanky panky on prom night If people make fun of me for not doing certain things I'm fine with that...at least I know I'm making the right decisions

 

[turning40withMickey]

Other than THAT unsettling episode in the was40 evening, things were good.
We were trying to enjoy a ball free night by going out to a real restaurant (the kind that has napkins and silverware on the table)
and we did


DD12 spilled her coke before the food came.
on her lap and all over the table.

it's never dull around the was40's

 

[snowwhite325]

Other than THAT unsettling episode in the was40 evening, things were good.
We were trying to enjoy a ball free night by going out to a real restaurant (the kind that has napkins and silverware on the table)
and we did


DD12 spilled her coke before the food came.
on her lap and all over the table.

it's never dull around the was40's

awww poor DD I'm sure your family is always the life of the party

 

[turning40withMickey]

I hate kids that drink...I was the girl who gave a lecture to everyone I knew that was going to prom about the dangers of drinking and driving and to never do it. I also told them no hanky panky on prom night If people make fun of me for not doing certain things I'm fine with that...at least I know I'm making the right decisions

Good for you!
Do you think he could have been drinking at football camp? I can't believe it! (Man, I am getting old!)
Probably his friends were huddled around egging him on.
DS is baffled, too. He doesn't know the boy at all, and it is not like he broke up some romance.........and he insists he and the girl are just friends.

 

[ilovedisney1]

OK, who went shopping & what was purchased.

, You packed and ready

Yep I am! Only a few more hours until we leave!