I am not debating with you, but I am interested in more of an explanation about what you do or don't believe. What do you mean when you say you "believe in God, but not necessarily the Bible"? Do you mean that you believe God exists but that he had nothing to do with the Bible? Or that some of it is true and some isn't? If so, what do you think of other supposedly God-inspired religious writings?
I guess I just wonder if you believe in God but that he didn't give us any way to know him. Basically that he's left us to figure life all out for ourselves. From what I know about it's history, I do believe that the Bible (even if it has some human created flaws - I don't know) is from God and is one of several ways God speaks to us. Other ways include circumstances, other people, thoughts, etc.
It is easy to be confused and disagree with things in the Bible. I have a TON of serious "why" questions for God when I meet him face to face. But as one who believes in God and Jesus, to discount the entire Bible because I don't
like some of what it says wouldn't make much sense. Maybe that's not what you are saying, anyway, or maybe you don't believe in Jesus. Hopefully you do believe in prayer, and that is probably what you need to do if you really want to find the answer you are looking for.
It is even more easy to disagree with the church than with the Bible. I am married to a music minister, and I am a regular church participant. I believe that God created the church for us, but I am 100% positive that God often (maybe more often than not)disagrees with decisions, actions, and attitudes within the church as a whole and its members. For those of you who have been hurt by the church and by the embarrassing, unloving, even hateful actions of its members and leaders, I apologize. Please don't confuse the church or any human attitudes and actions with God. (Sorry - this last paragraph has nothing to do with you or your question

. But I had to throw it in.)