Please don't flame me....
this is just IMHO, and as an experienced traveler.
If you are not going to the parks then I would suggest other hotels that are not Disney. For the money you spend at a Deluxe resrot at WDW, you could go to a beautiful seaside resort in Naples Florida, like LaPlaya. The rooms are beautiful, right on the beach, - which is stunning, soft white sand calm ripples and loades with beautiful shells, beautiful waterfall pools cabannas with full service, great food, shopping, golf, AMAZING sunsets, beach and pool service (they bring you cold towels and water and will serve you lunch and cocktails), a large full service spa/salon. There is no need for a car as there is an old fashioned trolley which takes you downtown - it stops right in front of the hotel. This hotel far surpasses any deluxe hotel on Disney property, and the $$ is less than Disney too. Very romantic and not far from Ft. Myers airport. I first saw it on the Travel Channel and knew we had to go...it did not disappoiont. This hotel is literally right on the beach and the view from your room (which has a full balcony with loungers and chairs) is unbelieveable. After the sun sets watch for shooting stars!!