I know you're wanting to save money. I'm all about saving money
What I said was (and this is IMO) your touring style is set up idealy for Park Hoppers, all the things you described you want to do, how you like to do them, wanting the flexibility of coming back again, your FOMO (lol sorry just had to) is coming across to me etc.
You may not want to
purchase/spend the money (which is totally understandable) on park hoppers which is why I then suggested dropping a meal or two if that helps pay for it or close the gap.
Maybe reprice everything out. Is there something you're missing that can help bridge the gap? I don't want you to feel like you have to break the bank to get Park Hoppers just didn't know if there was something else in the trip that can be adjusted to accommodate the expense of them.
In 2011 and 2017 we went in September. It's hot hot hot there so I get the heat comment. We personally eat less filling foods because of the heat, we drank 90-95% water, took some time out for a show or someplace inside to cool off a little bit, rested our feet at time, etc.
On the note of the
DDP I know it's crazy!. We won't get the Dining Plan because it doesn't work for us.