NMAmy
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- Oct 25, 2000
Part 1 Pre-trip
Cast of Characters
Me Amy, mom & DW, HUGE Disney planner
Alex indulgent DH and step-dad to
Caitlin 13 year old DD
Woo hoo! Were going to Disney World! I keep going around the office saying, Nanner, nanner, nanner. I am great fun to work with, they dont REALLY hate meIm just particularly annoying right now.
Our trip requires some background. Well, I dont want to go TOO far back, but about 4 years ago, Caitlins dad and I got divorced. He thought it was ok to have a girlfriend as well as a wife, and well, I just didnt really go along with that. The reason this is important will become clear, believe meI know yall dont want my whole life story here. At that time, we were all living in New Mexico, but our families lived in Michigan (which, if you knew my MIL, youd agree was an EXCELLENT idea). During the divorce, MIL got very ill and my dad was also in and out of the hospital. My ex told me he wanted to move back to Michigan and would I consider doing the same (since we were both constantly flying back and forth at that time). Alex and I were together at this pointI talked to him about it and he agreed that hed like a change so we made arrangements to quit our jobs and move to Michigan. Now, my exs little chippy threw a hissy fit and said she was NOT going to move here. Well, our plans were already made, so Alex, Caitlin, and I moved here and have been loving being around the family ever since. It worked out particularly well since my dad had a stroke right after Christmas last year and passed away in March. We were able to spend a lot of time with him before that and Cait really got to know her grandfather.
Caitlin always spends most of the summer and all holiday breaks with her dad--which is fine, it gives Alex & I a little quality time and she always loves, Loves, LOVES me when she comes home. Shes 13, this is a BIG deal to me. I know this may be hard to believe, but most of the time, I am totally uncool. This fall, she entered 7th grade and started hanging out with some new kids. Now anyone who has ever been a 13 year old girl (its hazy, but I vaguely remember it!) knows that there is really no meaner creature on the planet. Unless maybe its a 14 year old girl. She got into some problems with this crowd and just before Christmas, we had the sobbing and door slamming and everybody hates me thing going on. Really a great way to get into that holiday spirit, if you know what I mean. I felt for her, I really didwe moms always want to kick the behind of anyone who is mean to our babies.
Her dad was really pushing her to move back to New Mexico with him. So a day before she was supposed to come home, I got a phone call from her saying that she wanted to stay there and go to school for the rest of the year. I made him bring her home so I could talk to her in person, but there was really no reasoning with her. She was sobbing, I was sobbingwe were a big ole mess. The one part that made me feel better was that she kept saying, Mom, its not youI swear, youre the one thing I dont want to leave. I finally gave in and let her go even though it broke my heartwith one condition. I had already planned this big trip to WDW and I was NOT rebooking it. Her dad HAD to get her down to Orlando on 2/27 or she wasnt going out there at all.
Now Alex has just been wonderful throughout this whole thing. He always isCaitlin and I both just adore this man. This is a man who will get into bed before me at night and lie on my side of the bed until I get there so I wont have to get into a cold bed. Be prepared for the future trip reports, Alex stories are always kind of nauseating to people who dont have a guy like this in their life. Im a lucky girl and I know it!
We went to New Mexico for the MLK weekend in January to visit her. Luckily, just before she left, I had broken down and bought cell phones for the two of us with unlimited nationwide callsso we talk on the phone every day. Shes not having a great timeshes gone from being an only child to being one of 5 girls. She has 3 stepsisters and a half sister. Her dad and stepmom are not very nice to her. She called me last weekend and told me she wanted to come home. Right now. Today. Come and get me, Mom. I explained that if she came home right then, she wouldnt be able to go to school for 2 weeks, then take a week off to go to WDW. It would be better if she waited, then we could put her back in school the Monday after we got back.
Since then shes been waffling back and forthshe wants to come home, but she doesnt want to hurt her dads feelings. I have a roundtrip ticket from Michigan to Orlando that I really have to do SOMETHING with soon. Change to one-way, cash it in, something! Im ok with her staying till the end of the school year, if thats what she wants. I know shell come back here for school next year and plus, she could spend the whole summer at home.
On top of all this stress, Alexs house in New Mexico has sold and he decided it would be swell to start house hunting. I found a house I just adore last weekend. Weve decided to wait till we get back to put a bid on itif its meant to be, well get it.
Sowe leave one week from today! Well meet Cait at the Orlando airport for 8 days at the Dolphin. And the thing Im most looking forward to is seeing my baby.
Ill post the real trip reports right after we get back!
Cast of Characters
Me Amy, mom & DW, HUGE Disney planner
Alex indulgent DH and step-dad to
Caitlin 13 year old DD
Woo hoo! Were going to Disney World! I keep going around the office saying, Nanner, nanner, nanner. I am great fun to work with, they dont REALLY hate meIm just particularly annoying right now.
Our trip requires some background. Well, I dont want to go TOO far back, but about 4 years ago, Caitlins dad and I got divorced. He thought it was ok to have a girlfriend as well as a wife, and well, I just didnt really go along with that. The reason this is important will become clear, believe meI know yall dont want my whole life story here. At that time, we were all living in New Mexico, but our families lived in Michigan (which, if you knew my MIL, youd agree was an EXCELLENT idea). During the divorce, MIL got very ill and my dad was also in and out of the hospital. My ex told me he wanted to move back to Michigan and would I consider doing the same (since we were both constantly flying back and forth at that time). Alex and I were together at this pointI talked to him about it and he agreed that hed like a change so we made arrangements to quit our jobs and move to Michigan. Now, my exs little chippy threw a hissy fit and said she was NOT going to move here. Well, our plans were already made, so Alex, Caitlin, and I moved here and have been loving being around the family ever since. It worked out particularly well since my dad had a stroke right after Christmas last year and passed away in March. We were able to spend a lot of time with him before that and Cait really got to know her grandfather.
Caitlin always spends most of the summer and all holiday breaks with her dad--which is fine, it gives Alex & I a little quality time and she always loves, Loves, LOVES me when she comes home. Shes 13, this is a BIG deal to me. I know this may be hard to believe, but most of the time, I am totally uncool. This fall, she entered 7th grade and started hanging out with some new kids. Now anyone who has ever been a 13 year old girl (its hazy, but I vaguely remember it!) knows that there is really no meaner creature on the planet. Unless maybe its a 14 year old girl. She got into some problems with this crowd and just before Christmas, we had the sobbing and door slamming and everybody hates me thing going on. Really a great way to get into that holiday spirit, if you know what I mean. I felt for her, I really didwe moms always want to kick the behind of anyone who is mean to our babies.
Her dad was really pushing her to move back to New Mexico with him. So a day before she was supposed to come home, I got a phone call from her saying that she wanted to stay there and go to school for the rest of the year. I made him bring her home so I could talk to her in person, but there was really no reasoning with her. She was sobbing, I was sobbingwe were a big ole mess. The one part that made me feel better was that she kept saying, Mom, its not youI swear, youre the one thing I dont want to leave. I finally gave in and let her go even though it broke my heartwith one condition. I had already planned this big trip to WDW and I was NOT rebooking it. Her dad HAD to get her down to Orlando on 2/27 or she wasnt going out there at all.
Now Alex has just been wonderful throughout this whole thing. He always isCaitlin and I both just adore this man. This is a man who will get into bed before me at night and lie on my side of the bed until I get there so I wont have to get into a cold bed. Be prepared for the future trip reports, Alex stories are always kind of nauseating to people who dont have a guy like this in their life. Im a lucky girl and I know it!
We went to New Mexico for the MLK weekend in January to visit her. Luckily, just before she left, I had broken down and bought cell phones for the two of us with unlimited nationwide callsso we talk on the phone every day. Shes not having a great timeshes gone from being an only child to being one of 5 girls. She has 3 stepsisters and a half sister. Her dad and stepmom are not very nice to her. She called me last weekend and told me she wanted to come home. Right now. Today. Come and get me, Mom. I explained that if she came home right then, she wouldnt be able to go to school for 2 weeks, then take a week off to go to WDW. It would be better if she waited, then we could put her back in school the Monday after we got back.
Since then shes been waffling back and forthshe wants to come home, but she doesnt want to hurt her dads feelings. I have a roundtrip ticket from Michigan to Orlando that I really have to do SOMETHING with soon. Change to one-way, cash it in, something! Im ok with her staying till the end of the school year, if thats what she wants. I know shell come back here for school next year and plus, she could spend the whole summer at home.
On top of all this stress, Alexs house in New Mexico has sold and he decided it would be swell to start house hunting. I found a house I just adore last weekend. Weve decided to wait till we get back to put a bid on itif its meant to be, well get it.
Sowe leave one week from today! Well meet Cait at the Orlando airport for 8 days at the Dolphin. And the thing Im most looking forward to is seeing my baby.
Ill post the real trip reports right after we get back!