NJ State Commission recommends Marriage Equality

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From Garden State Equality:

Wednesday, December 10, 2008 – A New Jersey state government commission today unanimously recommended to Governor Corzine and the New Jersey legislature that they enact a law to allow same-sex couples to marry "expeditiously because any delay in marriage equality will harm all the people of New Jersey."

The recommendation is part of the 79-page final report of the New Jersey Civil Union Review Commission, a 13-member body created by the civil union law enacted in December 2006. The 13 Commissioners include not only LGBT leaders, but also a right-to-life Republican, plus two clergy, plus six government officials representing an Administration that had opposed marriage equality in the courts. Their report, passed on a 13 to 0 vote with no abstentions, is based on testimony from more than 150 witnesses over 26 hours spanning 18 public meetings in 2007 and 2008.

The civil union law "invites and encourages unequal treatment of same-sex couples and their children," concludes the final report, titled The Economic, Legal, Medical and Social Consequences of New Jersey's Civil Union Act. "In a number of cases, the negative effect of the Civil Union Act on the physical and mental health of same-sex couples and their children is striking, largely because a number of employers and hospitals do not recognize the rights and benefits of marriage for civil union couples."

"The Commission is compelled to issue its final report now because of the overwhelming evidence that civil unions will not be recognized by the general public as the equivalent of marriage in New Jersey with the passage of time. Nearly a decade later, civil union couples in Vermont report the same obstacles to equality that New Jersey civil union couples face today," the report states, citing the recent study of a panel in Vermont.

Besides assessing the civil union law's impact on same-sex couples, today's final report describes how the absence of a marriage equality statute deprives New Jersey's entire economy of considerable revenue. "Spending on weddings and tourism could boost the New Jersey economy by approximately $248 million over three years," the report states. One expert testifying before the Commission estimates the figure could be $500 million or more.

But the heart of today's report is its delineation of the harm that New Jersey's civil union law has pro-actively inflicted upon same-sex couples.

"I'm a pro-life Republican and past Director of Gloucester County Right-to-Life," said Commission member AnnLynne Benson on the release of today's report, “so I know the diversity of this Commission. Our report demonstrates in exquisite detail why amending New Jersey's law to extend marriage to same-sex couples is a necessity. The New Jersey Supreme Court ruled that 'denying rights and benefits to committed same-sex couples violates the equal protection guarantee and can no longer be tolerated under our State constitution.' Implementation of that ruling by the invention of a parallel status failed to deliver equality. It was like planting a toothpick and hoping a tree would grow."

According to the final report, civil union law's harm to same-sex couples includes:

▪ The inability of a number of same-sex partners to visit one another in the hospital, and to make medical decisions for one another, because hospitals don't accept civil unions as equal to marriage. The Commission's final report begins with the story of Naomi and Gina, a couple in Montclair, New Jersey who had a humiliating and life-threatening experience at a hospital. Gina was admitted to the emergency room with cardiac arrhythmia, unable to give consent for treatment. When Naomi arrived and said she was Gina's partner, the doctor interrogated Naomi about the nature of the relationship and initially kept Naomi away from Gina and refused to let her give consent for Gina. The report has other stories like this.

▪ "Significant psychological damage" to the children raised same-sex couples because their families are given the stigmatizing label of civil union; and to LGBT youth who view themselves as inferior because they cannot marry. "Their heartbreaking testimony," the report states, "brings to life their struggle in a way that no numbers – whether complaints filed with government agencies or advocacy organizations – can encapsulate on their own." Dr. Marshall Forstein, a Harvard Medical School professor, testified: "Second-class citizenship, now institutionalized in some states in the form of civil unions, contributes to increased rates of anxiety, depression and substance use disorders in marginalized populations."

▪ The denial of health insurance by employers to same-sex partners, especially harmful during the current economic crisis. Today's final report underscores what the Commission's interim report of February 2008 found, that the federal Employment Retirement Insurance Security Act (ERISA) preempts the New Jersey Civil Union law for approximately 50 percent of all employers in the state. For that 50 percent, providing equal rights and benefits for same-sex couples under the civil union law is an option rather than a requirement.

The Commission's final report refutes the notion – as the interim report did – that a change in state law from civil unions to marriage equality would have minimal impact because Federal law does not recognize same-sex relationships. The final report provides ample evidence to the contrary, based on the dramatically lower invocation of ERISA by companies in Massachusetts, which has a marriage equality law. "The term 'marriage,' the report concludes, "would make a significant difference in providing equality even with no change in federal law."

▪ Compounded harm to women, African-Americans and Latino-Americans, all of whom face discrimination because of their gender, race or ethnicity, and who now suffer double discrimination when denied equal rights and benefits under the civil union law. The state Public Advocate told the Commission about "the particular difficulty for lower-income same-sex couples who encounter discrimination because they have fewer resources with which to seek legal counsel and redress, and who have difficulty meeting expenses if faced with reduced healthcare benefits."

▪ Harm to the marriages of couples where one partner is transgender. The final report reaffirms the finding in the Commission's interim report that the classification of civil union places marital status in question for these couples, who had gotten married legally when they were opposite-sex couples.
 
wow it's like...they get it!

hospital visits, children, and lots of money for the state economy. WAKE UP AMERICA!
 
Oh my....I live in NJ, didn't see this report. I am so glad to see this, we have been working hard, but this is going to help push the state into legalizing us :)



WooHoo!!!:cool1: :dance3: :cheer2:
 
Slighlty OT....

Did anyone catch Boston Legal two nights ago?
 

I have never, ever watched that show as I can't stand Shatner. I'm in SC this week so was surfing channels and caught it from the time of the appeal to the justices.

That was some kind of episode! It was the final, wasn't it?

Hooray for NJ!!! It's great to see the Northeast is 'getting' it in more than one state! :teeth:
 
Oh my....I live in NJ, didn't see this report. I am so glad to see this, we have been working hard, but this is going to help push the state into legalizing us :)



WooHoo!!!:cool1: :dance3: :cheer2:

Padalyn - Not sure if you are in northern or southern NJ, but Garden State Equality is having events tonight and tomorrow night around this announcement. Here's the info:

Tonight, Wednesday, at 7:00 pm is Garden State Equality’s FED UP WITH INEQUALITY Town Meeting for North Jersey in South Orange, The Baird Center, 5 Mead Street. In a national exclusive, the guest speaker will be Harvey Milk’s nephew, Stuart Milk. We’ll lobby legislators on the spot. Afterward, join us for Garden State Equality’s free holiday party for North Jersey. All free, no RSVP needed.

Tomorrow, Thursday, at 7:00 pm is Garden State Equality’s FED UP WITH INEQUALITY Town Meeting for South Jersey in Collingswood, Scottish Rite Auditorium, 315 White Horse Pike. We’ll show video excerpts of Stuart Milk’s speech from Wednesday night. We’ll lobby legislators on the spot. Afterward, join us for Garden State Equality’s free holiday party for South Jersey. All free, no RSVP needed.

For further information, contact Garden State Equality at (973) GSE-LGBT.
 
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Hey jamieandben. SC is some kinda' state, huh? :) Florida, too. :scared1:
 
Slighlty OT....

Did anyone catch Boston Legal two nights ago?

It was a good one. :thumbsup2

That's a great show, I'm gonna miss that show. :sad1:

And hooray for the State of New Jersey, it's inspiring to see they believe in equality! :woohoo:
 
This time I was in Spartanburg.

I was here when Obama won. It was not a pretty thing. Florida is no prize either, but the reactions (public reactions) of many of the people here was downright disheartening.

Right up there with Yes on 2. :confused3
 
Padalyn - Not sure if you are in northern or southern NJ, but Garden State Equality is having events tonight and tomorrow night around this announcement. Here's the info:

Tonight, Wednesday, at 7:00 pm is Garden State Equality’s FED UP WITH INEQUALITY Town Meeting for North Jersey in South Orange, The Baird Center, 5 Mead Street. In a national exclusive, the guest speaker will be Harvey Milk’s nephew, Stuart Milk. We’ll lobby legislators on the spot. Afterward, join us for Garden State Equality’s free holiday party for North Jersey. All free, no RSVP needed.

Tomorrow, Thursday, at 7:00 pm is Garden State Equality’s FED UP WITH INEQUALITY Town Meeting for South Jersey in Collingswood, Scottish Rite Auditorium, 315 White Horse Pike. We’ll show video excerpts of Stuart Milk’s speech from Wednesday night. We’ll lobby legislators on the spot. Afterward, join us for Garden State Equality’s free holiday party for South Jersey. All free, no RSVP needed.

For further information, contact Garden State Equality at (973) GSE-LGBT.


Boy I wish I could go. I unfortunately work nights, and that is 7p-7a. Tonight is not possible.

too bad. South Orange isn't that far away. I live in Bergen County.
 














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