If you want to meet and eat somewhere close to the north end of the NJ Turnpike, Secaucus has a couple of shopping/eating/entertainment type areas. Here is a link to the Mall at Mill Creek:
http://www.harmonmeadow.com/pages/millcreekpage.html
From that page, check the one for the Plaza at Harmon. Both properties have a load of chain restaurants, and are as close to the Turnpike as you can get.
The best beer and pizza places I can think of around here are not anywhere near as convenient to the Turnpike as the malls in Secaucus. Those would be Brooklyn Pizza and the Lido in Hackensack or Nellie's in Waldwick.
After these places, my favorite NJ places for pizza and beer are down the shore.