I agree with solo on 1 and 2. Plus, ther are buses very close to teh family meet tents post race. No problem getting back to teh swan.
3. My parents see me at the start & mile 4 (pretty much teh same place outside Epcaot). Then, they monorail to TTC. You can wait there or continue to Main Street. CHeering on MS is awesome. With your pace, dh should eb able to monorail back to GF or Poly and see you on Flridian way. About 12 or 13.
Now, after that, my parents had breakfast at teh GF (just reward for getting up so early to cheer for us), but your dh may be able to hit AK or MGM. My parents just monorialed back to teh finish from there. Now, it's not always relieable, but you can get a tect sent to your dh's cell when you cross teh start, mile 10, half way, mile 20 and teh finish.
Also, the have professional photographers fro pix. They aren't cheap, but they are nice to have.
So, have you joined our training thread yet?

Please do!