Well the visit is over. They did not stay here. My FIL did stay here last night, but that was ok. one person here instead of 5.
I almost lost it when we had to cook dinner for everyone and DH was cooking on the grill and I was cooking the other stuff in the house and no one helped me set the table. I turned around and everyone was at the table ready to eat and when DH brought the food in they dove in before we even were finished cooking the rest of the food. by the time DH and I sat down, the baby was crying and I had to feed him. If someone had jumped in to set the table I could have fed the baby and we all could have sat down together and had an enjoyable dinner. Well I guess I expect too much.
All in all it went ok. My FIL and his family stayed at a hotel, but kept having to add another night because they were only planning on staying one night and the rest here. Oh well. Glad it is over.
Thank you for all the support
Cindy