My husband and I have never been to
Disneyland/Disneyworld and we're planning on taking our son (9) in late January 2016. I've started checking out lots of books and reading lots of blogs, but the more I read the more confused and overwhelmed I get. Because of school scheduling and wanting a winter getaway we really want to go in January. I'm aware that there may be a few things closed for refurbishment and this will probably be the only time we make it to Disney (at least for a VERY long time) so I want to make sure its worth it. Are we going to miss out on parades, fireworks, fantasmic and other special shows in this off season time? Also only planning on going for 3 days as we have lots of other things we want to see. Will that be enough time? Any other tips are much appreciated! I've been dreaming of this trip since I was a kid and want to make it special, although we are on a rather tight budget! We're staying in Carlsbad and are actually thinking of driving up each day, crazy I know, but we want to be flexible and drive up on days we will know will be beautiful.
-January is a perfect time to go. Crowds will be low, wait times low, bring a jacket.

- Since you've never been, IF there are rides being worked on, you won't miss them. I know that sounds weird and backwards, but you won't know the potential fun you're missing out on if something is in refurbishment. See my profile pic? That's me and the hubby on our honeymoon in WDW in 2007. That's Splash Mountain in the background. It was down for the count, so we didn't get to ride it. HA! It was still a wonderful trip. (and we took a pic anyway)
-3 days is the recommended minimum amount of time to spend, so you picked well! Especially since you're going in the slow season, you'll find 3 days is perfect.
-Not sure how far Carlsbad is from Anaheim, but when we went in 2013, we stayed in Downey, CA and drove in. It can be done, and I don't think you're crazy. You can save on hotels that way. Just be prepared to pay for parking at DL. Last I looked, it was $17 for a day parking pass.
-Pick your must-dos and start there. You're going in the off season, so I have no doubt you'll get to enjoy everything you want to. Perhaps multiple times in some cases.
-Pin trading is something you might want to look into for your son. He might enjoy it. You can buy pins in bulk from Ebay and trade with cast members around the park. It's an engaging activity and a fun souvenir.
-Don't stress. Don't take the books and blogs too seriously. I've been to WDW twice, DL/CA twice, and NONE of those times were planned very well. This summer will be our third DL trip (we're like you- we don't get these trips too often) and it's the first time I'm really planning. But honestly, I have NOTHING but wonderful memories of those other trips, so it's not like if you don't kill yourself planning you'll hate your time. One unplanned day at Disneyland is still better than a day just about anywhere else.
Have a wonderful trip![/QUOTE]