Hi Jen,
Don't get discouraged - there are a lot of neat things for teens to do there - we are about to take our 4th trip in four years and our 15 year-old DS is probably the most excited of our four kids!
I agree with the suggestion to let them hang out at DisneyQuest - maybe a have nice family lunch at Planet Hollywood first and then let the kids go spend a few hours there (then you and DH can catch a movie or do some shopping at DTD).
We're doing the Illuminations Cruise for the first time this trip, so I can let you know how that goes over with the oldest two (15 and 12).
Another idea is some of the behind-the-scenes tours. We are taking the two older kids on the EPCOT Aqua Seas Tour (a chance to swim in the big tanks with the fish!) and my DH is going on the Segway Tour at EPCOT (although he doesn't know it yet - hehe).
Also, check out some of the special meals they offer - my 15 year-old and I are doing the Dine with an Imagineer at MGM.
They can go parasailing and boating on the lakes (rentals are at any of the Lake resorts), dinner at ESPN Zone (fun, LOUD place!), play mini-golf at one of the two themed courses, horseback-riding at Fort Wilderness, and of course, the water parks - which are LOADED with big kid attractions.
Last but not least, make sure they check out the big rides like TOT, RNRC, M:S, and TT. Plan more time at MGM or EPCOT and less time at MK if they are worried about the "Kiddie" aspect of MK.
Try to keep them involved as much as possible in the planning, so they start to really feel like it is "their" trip too.
Good Luck, and have a wonderful time!
Aloha,
MsSpinShady
