lucyanna girl
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My daughter and her long-time boyfriend just called asking for my advice. They have been dating almost three years and he spends more awake time here than at home and thinks of my husband and I as a second set of parents.
Boyfriend is a smart kid and got quite a few scholarships. Together with his TOPS they amounted to about five thousand dollars a semester more than his tuition. Refund checks are about to be issued and he checked his account and found several of his scholarships missing and one reduced. This morning he went to the financial office at school and they told him that the university had declined the missing scholarships because the amount was more than his estimated cost of attending.
Can they just do that without even telling him? There is not a lot of money at home and he had already set up a savings account with the plan to save the overage for grad school when TOPS and his scholarships would not help. He is also working a couple of hours a day and putting that money away so he is not a spendy kid who was going to blow it.
This was all earned money - grade based, not grants or loans.
I've never heard of anything like this before. Any advice?
Penny
Boyfriend is a smart kid and got quite a few scholarships. Together with his TOPS they amounted to about five thousand dollars a semester more than his tuition. Refund checks are about to be issued and he checked his account and found several of his scholarships missing and one reduced. This morning he went to the financial office at school and they told him that the university had declined the missing scholarships because the amount was more than his estimated cost of attending.
Can they just do that without even telling him? There is not a lot of money at home and he had already set up a savings account with the plan to save the overage for grad school when TOPS and his scholarships would not help. He is also working a couple of hours a day and putting that money away so he is not a spendy kid who was going to blow it.
This was all earned money - grade based, not grants or loans.
I've never heard of anything like this before. Any advice?
Penny

