Need some advice from the ladies...

[Mariposa]

AND HOW DO YOU ALL KNOW I'M NO PRIEST/SAINT/ANGEL????

Um, how many rooms you got booked for this trip with your girlfriend? Uh-huh, thought so. Plus the ex-girlfriendS part might have tipped us off..

Just playing.

Anyway, she clearly likes you if she wants to go away with you, even knowing what a cad you are , so just be yourself. Buy her something she won't buy for herself but wants and get two copies of a couple of ride photos- make sure to put your copy out at your place.

 

[Eeyore2003]

Wow, gals,
I never expected so much great advice! All very true in its own right. I am pretty good at reading people, so I will take the advice of reading her and going with the flow...I am a huge WDW nut, so not saying "Oh my god, we have to do __________, I do it everytime I'm here!" will be hard, but I think that is good advice too.


I agree, with as many times as you've been there, you just GOTTA say "This is my favorite", "I LOVE this" or "We just GOTTA do this". It will just come out. I say, just be yourself and have fun together. If you feel like doing something "special" for her, don't "over do" it, that would be a give away and seem "fake"....do something YOU think she might enjoy or like. That caricature idea, or personalized thing.....I got a picture in my sons closet of him and his EX-girlfriend on vacation. What to do with it. It sounds like your not sure about her yet, so keep it sweet, simple and from what you've said of her, maybe "classy" and just have fun together.



AND HOW DO YOU ALL KNOW I'M NO PRIEST/SAINT/ANGEL????


So you have two unconnected rooms at Wilderness Lodge I take it???
Ya right.

 

[Figment's friends]

I feel I need to add this though, If she is one of those girls that will be angry over the past which you have no control over... rethink the relationship.

 

[popeyeohoh]

Look at gf with adoring eyes during dinner. A big smile that goes to your eyes is the best way of letting a girl know that there may have been others, but they pale in comparison. Good Luck!

 

[ainmama2001]

AND HOW DO YOU ALL KNOW I'M NO PRIEST/SAINT/ANGEL????

A little pixie told us!

 

[supersuperwendy]

Hey EAGLES fan!!!

From a delaware valley chick to a former delaware valley guy..........

NEVER MENTION THE PRIORS!!!!

really she should be fine...or maybe she needs to grow up!!!! who knows

When you see her eyeing up something she really likes...buy it secretly and have them send it to your room the following day...when you return the item will be there waiting for her! I did that with my husband on our honeymoon...it worked out great! and like others have said...don't over do it or she'll think you're trying to hard!!!!

just have fun!

 

[DepCor0311]

To clear some things up...

It sounds like your not sure about her yet, so keep it sweet, simple and from what you've said of her, maybe "classy" and just have fun together.

I am quite sure about her ...we have been together for about a year and a half, and she is great...While there have been some posts about re-thinking the relationship...I think thats a little harsh! This is not a super big issue for her, and what I am trying to avoid is it becoming one. From some of the other posts here I would say that her reaction/concerns are relatively "normal."

supersuperwendy:...GO IGGLES!!! I do like the secret gift idea, I think she'll like that!

 

[iwannabeminnie]

If I were her, I would be more upset if I thought you were trying to "not" mention the "others". I'm assuming she is an adult and has some redeeming qualities about her, or you wouldn't like her so much. Give her a little credit and be yourself. She knows you have been there before and with other girls. Going out of your way to NOT mention it is going to seem more odd. Just when you do mention something, leave off the " Ms. X and". Just say "I". For example, "I got soaked on this ride" not "Ms. X and I got soaked on this ride."

I honeymooned at WDW with my husband. My SECOND husband. He knew my first and I had taken our kids several times. He was fine with it. He knew how much I love WDW. We made our own memories. It was HIS first trip. He loved it. We have been back every year.

 

[marc1477]

Here is a suggestion from a guy. Make reservations for the two of you at one of the spas. I think Grand Floridian has one and think they have a special his/her package for both of you. I thinking about doing this for my gf next time we go.

 

[DiszyDeanette]

To clear some things up...
While there have been some posts about re-thinking the relationship...I think thats a little harsh! This is not a super big issue for her, and what I am trying to avoid is it becoming one. From some of the other posts here I would say that her reaction/concerns are relatively "normal."

It's not harsh if something like that really upsets her. Sounds like it isn't, so I'd just avoid "What do you mean you don't want to go see ______ show with me!? Suzie did, it was our favorite!" or other such obvious blundering remarks. Otherwise, just go have FUN!