Thanks for all the wonderful ideas! We have returned from our trip and had a fantastic vacation. We stopped at Dino World on our way down (Indiana to TN) in Cave City KY- big hit, couldn't have imaged how dino statues could be entertaining for more than 5 minutes but wow- totally worth the stop, we were there for about 3 hours. Then we went downtown Nashville our first night - at Dinner at Hard Rock (almost did Demos-but St. Pat's day and looked very crowded with local "Irish") and took a carriage ride around down town; great weather and awesome way to see all kinds of things, great tour guide. Next day we went to Adventure Sci Center, a few neat things but overall we were NOT impressed - but we did enjoy the planetarium, and our shorter day there made it possible for plenty of time that evening for Opry Hotel - where we were originally booked to stay but for a lot of reasons ended up changing. Spent several hours here including the boat ride around Delta Island (very Disney-ish; felt a little like Polynesian, Jungle Cruise, Port Orleans, Grand Floridian - kids loved it). We decided against my gut instinct to go to Belle Meade (was worried kids would be bored) but that was one of the best stops we made, glad we did, think a big part of how great this was, was due to our outstanding guide Miss Anne- DD absolutely loved it and DS had good time too. We did have breakfast at Pancake Pantry - got there early didn't have to wait too long but line was around block when we finished - my mom went with us and she's not a big pancake fan (says they are too soggy) this was one of her favorite stops we made! Great trip- thanks for all the Dis-help!