There's another thread called Our VIP day with a "Plaid" that gives a very different account of the VIP tour at DLR. I'm tentatively planning on doing a VIP day next spring, but after reading the OP, I think I need to give it further consideration.
I did email Disney and I received a "canned" response listing details for each type of tour. Below is the section of the email related to the VIP tour. It does clearly state
* Priority entrance to attractions is neither offered nor available. This contradicts what I've read in other threads. It seems like the VIP guide can give you FastPass access to some rides, and then if they know the CM on duty, they will speak to them and get you access to whatever else they can.
Email response from Disney:
VIP Tours
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Disney's VIP Tour Services enables Guests to experience the
DISNEYLAND®
Resort in a new and carefree way. Imagine discovering all the magic and
adventure awaiting Guests at both theme parks with a VIP Tour Guide as
their personal ambassador. VIP Tour Guides will customize your visit by
arranging special seating for parades, live stage shows and at the
distinctive restaurants at the Resort. Professional and knowledgeable,
VIP Tour Guides will also share their personal insight and experience
throughout the tour.
Availability:
* VIP Tour arrangements may be made by calling Disney Special Activities
at (714) 300-7710.
* VIP Tour Requests may be taken up to 90 days in advance. To ensure
availability, a minimum notice of 72 hours is suggested.
* Tours are available during normal Park operating hours only.
* Note: Tours may not be available during certain holiday periods. Call
for details.
Pricing:
*The cost of Disney's VIP Tour Service ranges from $315 up to $355 per
hour.* This rate is based on level of service and time of year.
* One VIP Tour Guide can host up to 10 Guests. If the party size is
larger than 10 Guests, a second VIP Tour Guide will be provided at an
additional cost.
Cancellations:
* Advance notice of 48 hours is required to avoid a cancellation fee
equal to two (2) hours at the booked rate per VIP Tour Guide.
Tickets:
* Park admission is not included in the hourly rate, but can be arranged
by the Guide for an additional charge.
Meals:
* Priority seating for all DISNEYLAND® Resort restaurants may be
arranged by the VIP Tour Guide.
Notes & Restrictions:
* Standard DISNEYLAND® Resort transportation will be utilized. Private
transportation is available at an additional cost.
* Priority entrance to attractions is neither offered nor available.
* A maximum of 10 Guests may be assigned to one VIP Tour Guide.
* The tour is conducted in On Stage areas only; there are no Backstage
tours.
* Any questions or concerns should be directed to a coordinator by
calling Disney Special Activities at (714) 300-7710.
* All information is subject to change without notice.