OK, I've read the entire thread, and since no one else has pointed this out, I will - THAT IS A CRACK LIGHTER!
Yeah, a torch lighter for smoking crack rock or other hard drugs. No, I'm not a crackhead, but I do watch Intervention, Weeds, Breaking Bad, Celebrity Rehab, etc.
That is not a regular cigarette lighter that has the child safety mechanism to keep kids from igniting them. That is a torch lighter so drug heads can smoke their whatever easier.
Under no circumstances should something like that be in reach of everyone. Especially since it looks like a toy!
My kids touch stuff in stores. I use logic for what they can and can't touch. Add me to the bad parent roster. How else will they learn how to behave appropriately if they aren't given opportunities to learn?