My daughter misses her dad. :(

[DisneyAddict_M]

 

[Disney Doll]

for you and your family that you guys have to deal with this. It's hard when kids are small and don't always understand.

As far as Princess Atta, there is a Disney merchandising number that you can call that can put you in touch with a central area that knows everything sold in the parks.

I will be there Sept. 17-20. so if you describe what you are looking for, maybe I can find it for you.

PM me if you need to.

 

[LadyTrampScamp&Angel]

I'm so sorry Fantasia. I remember when your DH passed and it is so unfair. I'm sorry you and the kids had to go through this.

 

[dizneenut]

I'm so sorry.

 

[mrsmom]

Kim:

 

[PRINCESS VIJA]

Sorry for the pain you guys are going through. I don't have any words of wisdom, but I do have an idea that I read about in a magazine. Basicly it is creating a memory box. I made one when my DD was born and gave it to DH and DD on her Christening day. It was a memory box of my FIL that had recently passed. I wrote to his friends and family and had them share memories and stories of FIL. THis opened a new glimpse into the man my FIL was, many stories we had never heard of, and even some items were put in the box. It is truly a treasure!

Sending hugs...

 

[*Fantasia*]

Thank you guys so much for those comforting words. You see when I see my daughter cries wanting her father, it hurts me more than anything cause I don't like to see my daughter hurt like that.
I just wish I can take the pain that she is feeling away. Let me hurt, let me feel the pain that she is feeling. I feel she is too young for all this, but I guess her true feelings come out and I am just trying to figure out how to deal with it with her.

For some reason my kids always find coins at the bus stop. I tell them they are from their Grandpa in heaven. Maybe now your kids will find some too.

That's weird cause I found a quarter near a door at a store and I gave it to my daughter. Maybe it was sent from heaven from her dad.

I will be there Sept. 17-20. so if you describe what you are looking for, maybe I can find it for you.

Thanks, I'm working on it through e-bay, I'm the first and only bidder so far!

Now, I don't know what to do, today is my day to volunteer at the playground. I don't know if I can do it. I can see myself cry again once I see her at school. I don't want to make any scene. I dont' want my daughter to cry again or worry my son.

Again, thank you everyone for listening to me and for being there for me. All your hugs and comforting words do help me feel better and sharing your experiences knowing that I am not alone in this world.

Love,
Telly

 

[CamColt]

Know you can always come here to talk to us.

 

[piglet too]

Many 's for all three of you.

 

[minniepumpernickel]

OMG-this is so sad. I was really upset about Rich passing away too. My heart goes out to everyones family who lost someone too soon.

 

[Keli]

Telly,
I experienced this from your dd's viewpoint as my dad died when I was a child. The grieving over a lost parent really is an ongoing process for a child because as someone else mentioned, you don't fully realize your loss at the time and as you start to see how things are different in your life because dad is gone you grieve all over again for him. I think you are doing the right thing with your dd in letting her know how much you care but I would also assure her over and over again that things are going to be alright. I really needed to see my mom as loving me so much and also as a strong figure, letting me feel like I could lean against her for support. I guess I needed her to be very soft on the one hand and very strong on the other. My heart goes out to you and your family.

 

[RedNeckChik13]

I searched for princess ata and this is what I found.
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=439&item=5919643563&rd=1

Its an Ata plush.

 

[chell]

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[perdidobay]

 

[raysnkaysmom]

Telly, I haven't 'met' you....but I read a post from you about a month ago (can't remember what it was about..) but I saw the picture and your OHANA quote...and I have nooo idea the circumstances of your husbands passing, but I have thought about you and your family since seeing the picture and quote in your signature.
I remember when my neice was 4 and lost her 'nana' who was basically raising her, and how hard it was for her...and of course for us. Sometimes their innocence really gets to us..I remember my neice SHelby saw her at the wake, and asked if she could kiss her so she would wake up like Sleeping Beauty...
The only thing we can do is reassure our little ones that their feelings are something they can talk about anytime...and that although they can't see their father in person, they can talk to him every day in their prayers....
We all wish we had some miraculous words, but know we are all thinking of you.
Take care,
Tracy

 

[JetMom]

love, prayers, and pixie dust for you and your beautiful family. We are all here for you.

 

[Purrrrfecta]

Telly,
My thoughts and prayers are with you

Connie

 

[Micca]

Heartbreaking.

 

[Tinkbell]

I'm so sorry that your daughter is hurting.

 

[TeresaNJ]