We have done
MNSSHP,
MVMCP, PPP (twice) and are doing MVMCP again on 12/11.
Here is what has always worked for us:
1) See the characters first- the lines get CRAZY long quickly. We like to be line for this by 6:30 pm. In the past, Mickey and Minnie, dressed for the holidays, were in Toontown Hall of Fame NOT the Judges Tent.
2) Watch the second parade. We have been curbside on Main Street for all of them when arriving 30 minutes prior (I send DH to get the cookies and hot chocolate for the 3 of us to munch on while we wait).
3) We always see Wishes from the hub area, but don't show up until about 15 minutes prior. We are not picky about being "straight" in front of the castle. Almost everyone is seated up there so viewing is never a problem.
4) We like to dress Christmasy for the party. It made for great pictures to display around the house during the holiday season
5) If you want to ride the rides, during the parades and Wishes is a great time to do it. So many guests go strictly for the extra events that ride lines are usually pretty short. After the second parade the park really empties out and that is a GREAT time to ride the headliners with little to no wait
6) We never go to a park on party day. We sleep late and maybe go to DTD or spend a couple hours at the pool. When DS was younger and still napped that was a big priority too. We have never left any of the parties before midnight (even when he was 2) since he had so much energy and loved being there "Cinderella Late". We also plan a pretty easy day the day after as well (sleep late, and usually head to EPCOT for a second time).
7) Try to eat dinner in the MK or at one of the MK resorts. We usually have a 5pm ADR so we can be at the park to get in the character lines by 6:30 pm.
HTH someone! Have a great time at the party
