Just want to get on the record that I really like the version of "Santa Claus Is Coming To Town" by Bing Crosby and The Andrews Sisters. They do it with a swing band and they really get down.
I believe Christa is right ... just be open to it, but keep your guard up. There ARE good people out there and those people will show themselves to you, if you're open. I'm not saying everyone is good. I don't believe that. Not going to go into detail with what I've been through, because evidently nobody wants to hear it on here ... at all. Nonetheless, you just have to feel you deserve unconditional love and then you'll be able to find it .... you'll know. It takes time though ... patience and time. If you give up on the possibility, you build a wall between making it a reality.