Mom Problems!

[RaggedyAnnPrincess]

Well, if your mom really did push your apology away, it's probably because she thought you didn't mean it. like everyone is saying here, be nice to her, do what you're told, and be thankful that you have her, also, don't insult her, that's definently a big,big bigNO

 

[Lovela]

Alright, promise this is the truth!

In the morning, before break fast my mum asked me to wake my brother up and I said no, and then when she was doing breakfast, I offered to help. Then she told me to spread some butter on the bread, I grabbed the butter spread roughly from her, and then here is the DIALOG:

Mum: What's wrong with you this two days?
Lovela(Mumbling): It's all your fault.
Mum: What did you say? *Slaps me*

Then I didn't talk to her until like 7.00 p.m.

Lovela: Hey, Mum. I'm sorry..

Mum ignores me.

 

[PowerMonkey]

even if your mom treats you badly, i dont think it gives you any right to insult her... the only reason youre still alive is because of your parents, and thats enough to be thankful for.. and worst comes to worst, you can just move out when your 18 if you truly hate her...

generally in arguments, i just sit and take in whatever my mom has to say to me.. even if i disagree, i just have to keep it in.. be the bigger person... than just release that anger on something more productive, like working out.. or taking a long walk.... one of my pet peeves (and i dont have many) is seeing kids mouthing off at their parents.. its just not cool, when considering everything they have provided you with.. cause think about it... when your a parent, do you want your kid to mouth off at you?

 

[PurpleDucky]

Alright, promise this is the truth!

In the morning, before break fast my mum asked me to wake my brother up and I said no, and then when she was doing breakfast, I offered to help. Then she told me to spread some butter on the bread, I grabbed the butter spread roughly from her, and then here is the DIALOG:

Mum: What's wrong with you this two days?
Lovela(Mumbling): It's all your fault.
Mum: What did you say? *Slaps me*

Then I didn't talk to her until like 7.00 p.m.

Lovela: Hey, Mum. I'm sorry..

Mum ignores me.

Now, it isn't cool for your mom to slap you. She's feels it as a sense of authority over you.
It also wasn't a good idea for you to say it's all her fault. It's your fault too

Here's the better answer
"Mom..Mommy (if you wanna suck up) I have some things bothering me..would you mind if we had a talk?"
I know it's not easy to say, but try.

 

[XxCuriosityxX<3]

Alright, promise this is the truth!

In the morning, before break fast my mum asked me to wake my brother up and I said no, and then when she was doing breakfast, I offered to help. Then she told me to spread some butter on the bread, I grabbed the butter spread roughly from her, and then here is the DIALOG:

Mum: What's wrong with you this two days?
Lovela(Mumbling): It's all your fault.
Mum: What did you say? *Slaps me*

Then I didn't talk to her until like 7.00 p.m.

Lovela: Hey, Mum. I'm sorry..

Mum ignores me.

Ok maybe your Mom didnt do the best thing there but you didnt either.
Saying snappy things always upset parents.
Try what Deven said, try confronting without saying something to get you deeper into the problem and try talking it out.
But have some respect for your Mom, she did and does so much for you.

 

[wishspirit]

I know its hard sometimes with parents esspecially on bad days, but being rude isnt going to help.

If your mom asks you to wake up your brother, wouldnt it just be easier to do it, so she feels like she can trust you? It was nice for you to offer to help with breakfast, but if you do it like you dont really want to help, its just gonna make her madder.

Just try and think from your moms point of view, mayeb she was having a bad day and when she asked you to help her, you were mean to her. She had no right to hit you, but sometimes moms have their off days too.

Try and show your mom you are responsible and maybe she will treat you with more respect. If you treat her badly, she will be less inclined to be nice. Things like lying and being rude, esspecially to the woman who raised you, is just bad manners and shows that you are pretty thoughtless.

Just my pennys worth

 

[taz]

I would never try to make her mad.

 

[Babyjustrun]

If you say your mother is childish (now I don't know her personally..)
Think about it this way.
When you yell at her, when you insult her, you're showing her that she can treat you that way too. Whether or not she's an adult, she's probably going to treat you the same way you treat her.

 

[depplvr4906]

phs i love my mom. she is so amazing to me. she always listens to me when i am upset and she helps me get though it. my mom is like my best friend. i would never do anything to hurt her. i cant even lie to my mom. i did once when i was little and she found out. she was so hurt and after that i could never lie to her again. my mom is so amazingly good to me. i love her so much

 

[disney100666]

I hope you can fix this relashonship!

 

[pigletgirl]

You may not like me saying this, but I think this is all coming from YOU. It may be your attitude, something you've done, whatever that is making her seem off. Why don't the 2 of you go out somewhere, so you can just talk? It would really help.

Your mother will be one of your best friends as you get older, especially in college. I really wouldn't know what I would do without her....She is my rock in every sense.

 

[Arielfn93]

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Be happy to have her around..
I know how it feels to be frustrated with my mom..
but be nice to her..you never know what will happen..I sure didn't..and I regret yelling at her all those times.

 

[DramaQueen]

Your mother will be one of your best friends as you get older, especially in college. I really wouldn't know what I would do without her....She is my rock in every sense.

that is absolutley the truth.

i never had problems with my mom when I was younger, but now that I'm older, she is literally the most important person in my life.
She is the first person I go to when I need advice, she's the first person I go to if I have a problem, she's a shoulder to cry on, and I love her more than life.
I almost lost her a few years back, so that may have ALOT to do with our relationship.
But HONESTLY, just show your mom some appreciation and you probably wouldn't be having all these problems.

If you said something NICE to her every so often as opposed to you two blowing up at each other all the time, it would REALLY make a difference.

I got in a little arguement with my mom this afternoon, but instead of insulting her or getting her angry, I just sat and thought about it from her perspective for a minute and realized why we got into that fight.
I apologized and now things are fine between us.

I really think you just need to think about things from your moms perspective. And let her know you appreciate her evert once in a while.

i hope you guys work things out.

 

[BabyPiglet]

that is absolutley the truth.

i never had problems with my mom when I was younger, but now that I'm older, she is literally the most important person in my life.
She is the first person I go to when I need advice, she's the first person I go to if I have a problem, she's a shoulder to cry on, and I love her more than life.
I almost lost her a few years back, so that may have ALOT to do with our relationship.
But HONESTLY, just show your mom some appreciation and you probably wouldn't be having all these problems.

If you said something NICE to her every so often as opposed to you two blowing up at each other all the time, it would REALLY make a difference.

I got in a little arguement with my mom this afternoon, but instead of insulting her or getting her angry, I just sat and thought about it from her perspective for a minute and realized why we got into that fight.
I apologized and now things are fine between us.

I really think you just need to think about things from your moms perspective. And let her know you appreciate her evert once in a while.

i hope you guys work things out.

Incredibly well said. =)

QFE.

 

[Lovela]

Hey You guys,

My Mum forgave me already, I regret posting this thread. Thanks for all the advices you gave to me, guys! I guess you were all right? Sorry..he..he..
We fought for like 3 days? But she forgave me. I cried until my eyes were like swelling. She said,
"How hurt you are inside, that's how I am feeling." so now, that's my advice to all the children that think their parents are nothing but big disturbing monsters. FORGIVE ME MUM AND EVERYBODY. So anyways, who's having a fight with their mum now? My Cousin said that she would e-mail my Mum, which was a big NO! I'm going to go and have my ears peirced again and I'm gonna get my phone back, woo! So, it's bad insulting your parent?

Regards,

Lovela..

 

[taz]

that is absolutley the truth.

i never had problems with my mom when I was younger, but now that I'm older, she is literally the most important person in my life.
She is the first person I go to when I need advice, she's the first person I go to if I have a problem, she's a shoulder to cry on, and I love her more than life.
I almost lost her a few years back, so that may have ALOT to do with our relationship.
But HONESTLY, just show your mom some appreciation and you probably wouldn't be having all these problems.

If you said something NICE to her every so often as opposed to you two blowing up at each other all the time, it would REALLY make a difference.

I got in a little arguement with my mom this afternoon, but instead of insulting her or getting her angry, I just sat and thought about it from her perspective for a minute and realized why we got into that fight.
I apologized and now things are fine between us.

I really think you just need to think about things from your moms perspective. And let her know you appreciate her evert once in a while.

i hope you guys work things out.

Exactly On.



And glad things are going well

 

[RaggedyAnnPrincess]

Hey You guys,

My Mum forgave me already, I regret posting this thread. Thanks for all the advices you gave to me, guys! I guess you were all right? Sorry..he..he..
We fought for like 3 days? But she forgave me. I cried until my eyes were like swelling. She said,
"How hurt you are inside, that's how I am feeling." so now, that's my advice to all the children that think their parents are nothing but big disturbing monsters. FORGIVE ME MUM AND EVERYBODY. So anyways, who's having a fight with their mum now? My Cousin said that she would e-mail my Mum, which was a big NO! I'm going to go and have my ears peirced again and I'm gonna get my phone back, woo! So, it's bad insulting your parent?

Regards,

Lovela..

Aww, I'm so glad everything worked out! Just remember the advice everyone gave you, and hopefully everything will go well with you and your mom!

 

[Lovela]

Sorry for making so much fuss here, I was just so frustrated. Thanks Rag, thanks everyone!

 

[wishspirit]

Im glad it all worked out
See moms aren't all that bad are they?

 

[Disney.Ears]

Even though you and your mom have made up, imagine not having there in your life.

My aunt (not really, but she's close) just died this past week. She's leaving behind triplets, all 10 years old. Just imagine not having your mom there through your life now, like them. Think about how difficult it would be. Just think...