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[llamasrcool]

Ok, so my "friend" made a hugs mistake, and I am invited to her sister's wedding...and my friend didn't invite me to the bridal shower...does that make sense? We're supposedly Best friends. She said I showed no interest in going, when all we were freakin talking about the day before, was the shower. She is so phony. She said she didn't think I could buy her sister a present. Why, because you think I'm poor? And now, she took me off her top and I was number 1 and she was on mine too, but now I'm not even on it. I took her right off. I can't even believe her. I really can't. I'm really sorry guys, I'm am SO pissed off right now. School starts in 2 days and I can't deal with this.

 

[KitKat_Tink]

It sorta does make sense...I've been to loads of bridal showers and always its family and the brides friends...not the brides sisters friends...The wedding is usually more open to others. So it makes sense unless you were the brides friend also...

but her taking you off her top over that is pretty lame...

 

[imabrat]

I'm sorry Anne, she sounds kinda petty. AFAIK, bridal showers are for family and brides friends. Maybe family is allowed to bring a guest, IDK. I've never been to one, just heard about them.

Maybe she's trying to say "You're not invited, the bride said no" but in a polite (which it most definitely isn't coming out) to avoid you getting upset or mad?

 

[llamasrcool]

Thanks Sonya. Well number one, I was supposed to be invited because my friend is the bridesmaid, and I'm her guest at the wedding. She is the one who was supposed to invite me. I was obviously allowed to go since she said, "I didn't think you would want to go". And she did hurt my feelings. She has put me through SO much crap..it's not even funny. And I'm sick of her using me.

 

[ThePurpleMorphy]

We understand. I know I would be ticked off too.

Just remember, your BFF's sis is getting married, not your BFF. (Your BFF isn't her sister. It's your friend.)

Anyway: hugs!

 

[llamasrcool]

I know, but her sister and I are close...it makes no sense...but thanks.

 

[cdog12]

I am kinda on your friends side as she didn't have to invite maybe the shower were only for family members?She invited youto the wedding did she have too? no so you should be thankfull not ungratefulll


P.S. I know this is going to be throwed at so please be nice and i am sorry if it's offensive towards anyone

 

[llamasrcool]

I have nothing to say.

 

[Disney.Ears]

I think the whole "top" thing, is pretty lame but whatever.
Tops in general are so annoying because it's like you're "ranking" your friends, which is dumb.

But anyway, bridal showers are usually for the bride's family and close friends and I'm sure that's the only reason you're not invited. Don't take it personally, just enjoy the wedding