We've stayed at CBR & POFQ, as well as AS Mo. We're headed back to a moderate this time (CSR) for a couple of reasons.
1. If you expect to spend more time at the resort with your little ones, there is more to do at the moderates: better play areas and pools, plus waterslides, slightly larger rooms, better food options, plus marina options.
2. The All Stars feel more crowded and are definitely noisier. More concrete, less landscaping.
3. I think the theming is a wash. We loved the Fantasia theming and Andy's room, etc at AS Mo. And the pool, while big and busy, was fun. The moderates feel more like a resort.
You'll have a great time regardless, but my vote goes to the moderates. Pick one based on your favorite theming elements.