At
MVMCP we went to the Princess Tea that morning - it was too much IMO. We stayed until midnight though.
For
MNSSHP we just stayed at the resort that day, and it much better for us, so that's what we're planning for this time.
We dressed up at MNSSHP. I had read the reports about how hot it would be, but we figured we could handle it. We stuck it out until after the second parade - then we changed out of the costumes. This year we'll just wear Halloween t-shirts.
goofy4tink - I was Maleficent last year - and I received a lot of compliments. I made it myself out of a sheet and a headpiece from a cat costume. It wasn't a problem getting around or doing the rides, but it was HOT. My headpiece may be heavier than yours, but it was the first thing I took off, probably a couple of hours before I took off the rest of the costume. DD was Aurora, and DH was Prince Philip, but most people didn't know who he was.
kldmom2000 - DH refused to dress up too, but DD somehow convinced him to be her prince.