Missed call habits

simba20

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Are you the kind of person who, if you see a missed call on your cell phone from someone you know, that you would call them back, even if it hours later to see what they wanted or do you figure the person will eventually call you back?

What about if someone you know had sent you a text message and you happened to look at it hours later, would you call/text that person back?

I have one friend who is basically the only person, besides my husband, that I call or text from my cell phone. My friend is the type who ALWAYS has her cell phone glued to her, unless she is at home sleeping (she's a nurse who works nights). About a year ago she got a new position at the hospital she works at, and her schedule which used to be predictable, is now all over the place. Anyway, I admit that sometimes when I am out and about, I will call her to see if she wants to meets for lunch. Knowing that she ALWAYS answers her phone, if she doesn't answer, I do not leave a message, because it's just a call for lunch and I figure that if she is not answering her phone it's either dead (remember my comment about her with it 24/7) or that she is sleeping. Since I am usually heading to lunch within the next hour or so, I feel it is pointless to leave a message saying "Hey just wanted to see if you wanted to meet for lunch.". On the other hand, I feel that if she couldn't get to her phone in time, she'd see the missed call alert and call me back.

Now with the texting part of the question, I just happened, a few minutes ago, remembered that I sent her a text Sunday morning to see if she would be at church that day. We traveled over the holidays, so aside from a post on FB, it has been three weeks since we have seen each other. It occurred to me that it has now been three days, and I never got a response. Now if it were me, I'd text or call you back, even if it was a day later to answer you, tell you why we missed church (not that I need explanation, but I might say I was tired,sick, etc. In conversation).

Now this post is not to rant on my friend, it's just to get an idea of what you would do if you saw a missed call/text from someone you knew on your cell phone.

For me, I may not see things until hours or a day later, but I'd give you a call/text.
 
If it is a call and they don't leave a message asking me to call back I typically don't call back. If it is a text and I get it several hours later or even a day or so later I will still usually text back depending on what the text says.
 
I agree, usually I don't call the person back unless they ask me to or if its my parents or my gma. If its a text I usually automatically text back, or do as soon as I get the chance.
 
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If there is no message I will not respond back to a missed call, I would assume it was not urgent in nature or was something trivial otherwise the person would have left a message.

Texting, I would follow up since in reality there is no way to know whether or not she actually got the text. I believe the same of email, it does not always go thru and if not acknolwdged I will either resend with an FYI don't know if you got this type message.

If the text or email is just information in nature ie: Happy New Year I would not expect an acknowledgment.

Your text was a question, an answer would be a reasonable expectation but like I said if you didn't actually speak with her or see her phone you do not know if she actually got it.
 
If there is no message I will not respond back to a missed call, I would assume it was not urgent in nature or was something trivial otherwise the person would have left a message.

Texting, I would follow up since in reality there is no way to know whether or not she actually got the text. I believe the same of email, it does not always go thru and if not acknolwdged I will either resend with an FYI don't know if you got this type message.

If the text or email is just information in nature ie: Happy New Year I would not expect an acknowledgment.

Your text was a question, an answer would be a reasonable expectation but like I said if you didn't actually speak with her or see her phone you do not know if she actually got it.


Allllll of this!
 
depends on the person who called. I have a brother who is does not text/ leave messages so if he calls and does not leave a message I will call him back. He lives with my Mom so I will check to make sure he is not calling about her.

texting, yes, if anyone leaves me a text that requires some sort of answer I will answer back.

What I will NOT DO. If I do not know the number/name of someone who called me and they did not leave a message I will NOT call them and ask...did you call me??
That I do not understand.
 
If it is a call and they don't leave a message asking me to call back I typically don't call back. If it is a text and I get it several hours later or even a day or so later I will still usually text back depending on what the text says.

This. I usually don't call back if there is no message. As far as the text, I am more likely to text back (I feel it's less intrusive) IF the text is part of a conversation or needs a reply.
 
Depends on the person.

Some people, mainly my family, I call back right away even without a message because we don't leave messages for each other and we expect a call back.

Some people, I don't call back unless a message is left.

If someone texts me, I will text them back but sometimes it is akward depending on the conversation.
 
Some don't have caller ID, voice mail or texting. If the phone rings they answer it. If they aren't available the people can call back later. Ahh, the simple life.
 
Phone call with no message - I do nothing. I assume that if they wanted me to call them, they would have left a message.

Text - Unless it is an emergency, I ignore all text messages. My friends all know this and never text me.

E-mail - I respond if it seems appropriate based on the content. I don't respond if it does not.
 
If I "just" missed a cell phone call (couldn't get to the phone fast enough) I will call back. If the call was made a while ago and no message, no, I don't usually call back unless they left a message. I respond to text messages when I can-usually right away. I try to leave messages for most people when I call so they know why I called-even if it was just to say "hey, I'm in the neighborhood, are you free for lunch".
 
It depends on who it is calling or texting me. If my wife or kids call and I don't notice, I will call back. If it's anybody else, even family, I don't bother.
 


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