So, as some of you know, Brooke is going in for port-a-cath removal surgery tomorrow morning. I really want to 'celebrate' this milestone by having a little celebration for her, so I've been trying to figure out when I should do it. I was thinking of doing something for her this weekend, but I don't know how 'up' to it she'll be. (Well, she'll probably be raring to go the minute we get home, but I am more apt to force her to rest for a few days! LOL!)
Then, I thought it might just be easier to plan a little cake for her at Avery's first birthday party (which is three weeks away). I don't want to take away from Avie's big day, but I don't think she'll mind. Had she been a 5-year-old we might have some limelight issues, but she's just a sweet one-year-old, so no worries there! Just seems to make sense since we will already have family and friends over to the house and I know how busy April is for our family. (Lots of birthday parties, a family reunion and, of course, Easter events taking place.)
So, now I just have to decide do I give B her 'cancer-free' gift now or wait until Avie's bday? Here it is:
This doll set was available just before Christmas. I had been eyeing it all of November and December in hopes the price would go down. (they had it available last year, too, but different dolls--no Tiana and Rapunzel. Had Aurora instead.) It was originally $130! Yikes! But, three days before Xmas, it went on sale for $49.99! And, it was the last one on the shelf. Fate! Even though I had already bought waaaaay more than enough for the girls for Xmas, I decided to buy it. Couldn't pass it up at that price!
My plan was to either save the whole set for B's bday or parcel out each doll for different holidays--one for Easter, one for Valentine's, etc. When we applied for MAW, and I read about all of these little going-away parties, I thought maybe I would give her the dolls then.
Then, when I started planning B's little 'remission' shindig, I remembered the dolls and decided they were the perfect gift for her! So, do I give her the dolls tomorrow after she wakes up from surgery? She won't likely be in the mood to play with them, but it would be a nice surprise for her.
Or--do I wait until Avie's bday and give 'em to her then?
I am kinda leaning toward giving them to her tomorrow because I don't want people to feel like they should have brought a gift for B to Avie's party. I just kind of want to spring it on our guests--like ''And here's a cake for Brooke who has been such a great patient this past year! Congratulations on being cancer-free!'' As much as gifties have always been greatly appreciated, that's not why we are marking this milestone with a cake. We just want to celebrate this joyous occasion with the people we love!
What do you guys think?